Hello. So…yea bear with me i know from the title its a bit much.
I don’t know whether this post is to be serious or not, but the thing is im just a tight ass and don’t like spending my money xD.
So as a white westerner whos under 35, how exactly would i go about doing this, someone who is at least under 45 but looks in her 30s. Is there any areas you can think of to hang around or just general advice on how to go about getting this.
Your idea is just fairly incompatible with the dating culture here.
Women here for a start like mature men. And I understand why, the didis here are spoilt stupid idiots. It really takes the men here a long time to grow up.
And then money and taking care of the women is just a big part of the equation. Ain’t no women here looking for a stingy bloke, thats a massive turn off.
And trust me the older women here don’t fit into your fetish like you think they do. Older single women here are usually dull as dish water, still living at home with their parents and not in the slightest bit exciting.
You would be better off dating the younger generation. They are less interested in money, less traditional and more open minded.
There used to be clubs specifically for older women looking for boy toys. Used to know several guys who met sugar mommies in these places. These days I’m not sure how such arrangements are made. Probably on dating sites like @Marco mentioned.
Oh, no. Sugar mommies are definitely a thing here. Has nothing to do with the dating culture at large. It’s a niche that has always existed.
OP should be clearer about whether he just wants a one night stand with an experienced woman, or if he’s looking for a real “sugar momma” who will pay for him and coddle him like a favorite son (albeit one she occasionally sleeps with).
Oh, he indeed wants someone else to pay for everything. I think there’s a word for people like that…
Well i didnt say it didn’t exist but its far from the norm and imo most likely going to end in disappointment. Your time would be better spent on young women, less hassle.
I’m sure it’s still a thing and will be as long as there are professional women not inclined to enter into the whole cultural package of marriage in Taiwan. Maybe things will change along with the generations, but not quite yet I’m sure.