[quote=“Ke di er”]What is it about this place? Do we all come here to start slipping backwards?
Have I ever met anyone who really has become a better person in Taiwan? Not yet[/quote]
Nobody.
[quote=“Ke di er”]Good point Tigerman.
Isn’t that what this is all about, “How do I be a better person”?
Everyone needs to improve in some way, or perhaps you are perfect.[/quote]
Watch it. I never said or even implied that I was perfect. You asked whether we all come here and “slip backwards”. I only asked what you meant by “better”.
I agree, but its an entirely irrelevant point with regard to Taiwan… because Taiwan isn’t unique in that regard.
[quote=“Ke di er”]I am a learning Chinese, married to a local, English teaching, money earning type. I have become more skilled in certain areas, learnt many things that I would never have learnt without coming here, learnt more about myself in a single year than I learnt in my whole life. But, I have yet to become what I would call a better version of me.
Better would be being able to live up to the expectations and values that you hold as being important for yourself and moving further along that road.
To me it can be all put together in 1 Cor. 13 and James 1.[/quote]
Sorry, I don’t have my Bible handy. Perhaps you could quote those cites so I have some idea of what you are talking about.
I try. But, I keep my expectations simple. The Golden Rule suffices for me, and I try to be a good husband and father and son and brother. I sure as Hell don’t worry much about falling short… we all do sometimes. Anyway, what’s so difficult about these goals and values I have set?