How do married Taiwanese couples split their costs?

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@Brianjones

By the way your query has been asked a few times on here previously.

Unreasonable (or reasonable?) Financial Expectations

I know that everyone has different expectations for how to split expenses, but this problem is so frustrating that I just had to come here and ask. Some quick background info: American guy + Taiwanese girl. We each make roughly the same amount of money a month. When we were dating, she would share the expenses on large bills like a vacation and once in awhile treat me to something, but 90% of the time it was me who paid. I’m not a stingy guy so I didn’t bring up the issue until a few months int…