I have this good friend. We haven’t seen each other in years (he lives in Switzerland), who got married to a woman who subsequently divorced him. They had a child, a sweet little girl, who unfortunately had multiple sclerosis. The kid was disabled and pretty much bed-ridden. I used to send her Christmas gifts (she liked Betty Boo, so there were BB pillows and dolls and other paraphernalia). Their divorce was acrimonious, so they were embroiled in constant legal battles over custody. He used to travel miles every fortnight to see her.
Anyway, I wake up this morning to the devastating news that the ex-wife drugged the child and smothered her to death, before taking a pistol and blowing out her own brains.
That’s pretty fucking shit.
Why can’t people see this coming? There’s always this psycho xaojie stuff going on, yet it’s constantly perpetuated.
And I’m not blaming the women here, because the same is true for men. I know from experience, being a prior sociopath.
Don’t people take a step back and evaluate the situation, before getting married and having kids? Or is it just good sex that clouds their judgement?