I give and share my bonus to my parent, brothers and sister.
Live and learn, grasshopperā¦
Most of us can recognize this situation. It happened to me a lot more when I was new in town and fresher looking.
They donāt bother inviting grizzly bears for dinner lol.
Gave:
20,000 to wife
12,000 to mother-in-law
10,000 to father-in-law
1,200 to daughter, wife siblings (x2)
600 to a visiting friend
600 to dog
Received
11,800
My daughter received more than my wife but I donāt get to even see that money lol
Bought 2,100 in scratch tickets got 1,000 back 
no BMW for meā¦
?
My wife puts a little red bag on my dogās neck and people put red envelopes in, helps pay for the food, cans, toys etc.
Can be done with kids too. Just send them around town 
/s
lol
Iām launching a full assault on all the aunties tomorrow during a family lunch!
15k-ish went out to family members
15k-ish came back to my daughter
We tried giving my in-laws a red envelope, but Iām sure they just went in the other room, took the notes out, put them in their own envelope and gave it to my daughter. I checked, the notes were the same colour as the ones we put in!