What does a guy mean when he says like “well, i’ll see you around” ?
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[quote=“pednlit”]What does a guy mean when he says like “well, I’ll see you around” ?
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It means that you should start looking at alternative options for a serious relationship.
That would be a YUP.
That’s not as bad as my personal favorite, “Have a nice life.”
see you around… (in his mind, hopefully never)
Actually fairly innocuous statement . Depends in what context it was used. It does not automatically spell that no relationship can take place.
It could be say in the following scenario:
Student A says to Student B " see you around" as he is leaving the library after just coming across a girl he likes. The relationship has not yet started, and he may be hopeful that one will, and it seems like an innocuous and friendly statement.
"I’ll see you around " could still carry a LOT of potential ! So if you are a young lady or young man and one person you fancy said that to you early on in your tete-a-tete, it does not spell a dead end per se.
Speaking of “around,” my wife’s so fat when she sits around the house she sits around the house.
Unless tommy is the recipient, in which case it can be translated as roughly meaning:
“See you again? I’d rather spend the next 20 years having busted glass shoved up my butt by 7 naked fat ladies.”
Approximately.
If I could bottle my charm and sell it, Id make millions !
p.s. that IS quite a mental pic there el jefe 
you think too much. sounds like a normal cya I gotta go work.
what’s he supposed to say? “my place or your place?”
Context is king.
Circumstances before and during the time it was said? Tone of voice? Body language? Nature of your relationship? Etc. etc.
[quote=“pednlit”]What does a guy mean when he says like “well, I’ll see you around” ?
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it means: If I happen to run into you again and there are no better options available I will give you another go.
Everything reminds me of a song.
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The context: cyberspace + both quite new to each other. (we didn’t meet online tho)
i suppose this makes its meaning even more ambiguous. lol
Yeah…“See ya around” online is even more bizarre lol. I have been known to say “see ya later!” online when there is no way I will see someone later (due to distance lol) but it just comes out, its just a normal way to say “bai bai”…so context is important. He might mean it totally neutrally…or he might not be that into you.
If hes into you, you’ll know it.
But yes, in many cases, “see you around” isnt a great sign lol.
[quote=“NomNomTaiwan”]Yeah…“See ya around” online is even more bizarre lol. I have been known to say “see ya later!” online when there is no way I will see someone later (due to distance lol) but it just comes out, its just a normal way to say “bai bai”…so context is important. He might mean it totally neutrally…or he might not be that into you.
If hes into you, you’ll know it.
But yes, in many cases, “see you around” isnt a great sign lol.[/quote]
hope i can figure it out soon since we are more like acquaintances i must say…
thanks.
[quote=“pednlit”][quote=“NomNomTaiwan”]Yeah…“See ya around” online is even more bizarre lol. I have been known to say “see ya later!” online when there is no way I will see someone later (due to distance lol) but it just comes out, its just a normal way to say “bai bai”…so context is important. He might mean it totally neutrally…or he might not be that into you.
If hes into you, you’ll know it.
But yes, in many cases, “see you around” isnt a great sign lol.[/quote]
hope i can figure it out soon since we are more like acquaintances I must say…
thanks.[/quote]
there’s nothing to figure out.
you dont have to interprete every single word somebody said. sometimes they just say it.
if he said that to you after a date, then why don’t you call him up, ask him what you mean “see you around”, and ask him out on another date because it seems you are crazy about this guy?
It shouldnt be this hard to date There should be a dating manifesto or something.
A brief questionaire emailed to each other at the start of a 1-to-1 :
On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being highest) do you …
- find me attractive enough to date
- find me attractive enough to have sex
- find me attractive enough to consider as a future mate
Are there any obstacles to our being together? On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being greatest obstacle)
- ex or current boy or girlfriend (singular or plural)
- parental acceptance
- income (high / low / none )
- education (high / low / none )
- political leaning (leftist / rightest / middle of the roader / none)
- religious beliefs (Christian / Muslim / Buddhist / New Age / Ago / other )
7 food preferences (chicken / fish / pork / beef / veggie / dog / cat / rabbit / other)
8 general life outlook (Chanel or brandless, Levi’s or brandless , KFC or MickeyD)
What are your bad habits/traits ? Again on scale of 1 to 10 (10 being of greatest potential impact)
- smoking (brand of cig / cigar/ cigarillo )
- drinking (name of your poison)
- whoring (ok who and where and when … spit it out)
- bad temper ( all the time ,some of the time, none of the time)
- anxiety disorder (all the time, some of the time, whatever, whenever)
- finger (or another part of the body) biting
- nervous ticks (on face, neck, other body parts)
- body odor (especially where? )
- ill health (mental , physical, other)
- bad genes (mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, auntie, poodle)
11 bad jeans (clothing sense or lack thereof)
12 low iq
13 low eq
14 low sex drive
15 low hunger drive
16 low drive PERIOD
17 failure to take out garbage
18 failure to maintain personal hygiene
19 failure to straighten out your room
20 failure to walk dog/ cat/ rabbit/ fish
21 failure to recognize my new hair / hair do / crew cut / bikini wax
------------------------------- (more to follow)
I used to know this one country girl back in Oklahoma. Whenever I talked to her she would repeat everything I said to herself, trying to figure out what I meant.
She sounds like quite a catch. As long as she wasn’t dribbling everywhere.