You’ll have to forgive me if I come stumbling out of the gate. I just registered on Forumosa today, thanks to the recommendation of a good friend.
I can honestly say that the most helpful, practical advice I’ve ever received on how to live a happy life has come from Jesus’ sayings in the Bible. In fact, to my mind, there’s no advice that’s more relevant and helpful today than the stuff Jesus is quoted as saying. Even so, there are times when I read the things Jesus is quoted as saying in the Bible and my initial response is one of shock, confusion or dismay. The passage Mother Theresa quoted about turning the other cheek is a prime example, one which, at least for me, goes against the grain of my own desire to fight back, defend myself and the ones I love, or get revenge. As a Christian, I often fall short of Jesus’ command to turn the other cheek.
But what amazes me even more about Jesus is the extent to which he lived out the stuff he was talking about. If one were to take Jesus at his word when he says that he is the Son of God and the Savior of the world, you would think he would have more than enough power to save and defend himself during his own trial, torture and crucifixion. And yet Jesus is described as hardly saying a word, even when given the chance to, and not putting up a fight. Whether or not you believe Jesus is the Son of God, I tend to think that Jesus’ ability here to practice what he preached is pretty admirable, and his words very much in contradiction to what a ‘normal’ person would consider to be natural. And that’s the thing: if anyone were to seriously undertake to live according to what Jesus said, I think you’d discover at least two things: (1) what Jesus is telling me to do runs counter to what I and most people are doing, and yet he’s telling me that his way is the way to really live; and (2) I can’t live up to what Jesus is telling me to do, not by my own power at least. The only way I can live the way Jesus wants me to is if Someone helped me out a little… or a lot.
On a side note, Mother Theresa mentioned that she couldn’t believe in a God like the one described in Ezekiel, and I can sympathize with that. No one wants to be faced with a wrathful, fire-bringing God; we much prefer to see God as a God of love, peace, and hope. (Incidentally, I don’t think the concept of a God of wrath like the one quoted in Ezekiel and a God of love like the one we see in the Gospels are mutually exclusive.) But one thing though: if our belief in God was strictly conditional upon God conforming to everything we insisted God should be, and God “wasn’t allowed” to have any characteristics that offended us, surprised us or confused us, it seems to me that we might be fabricating God in accordance with our own wants and preferences rather than being truly open to the existence of a God who is bigger than we think.
Thanks for bringing up the question, Mother Theresa – it’s a great one. Jesus is quoted in the Bible as saying some strange things sometimes and a forum like this is helpful for trying to flush stuff like this out. If there’s anyone out there in Forumosa who’s interested, there’s also a group specifically for expats like us called Thrive that meets every Saturday afternoon in Yong He and has the nasty habit of discussing questions like the one Mother Theresa asked. At these meetings, there’s always an emphasis on “how, if it all, does the Bible and the stuff Jesus says really make a difference”. You don’t have to have a particular point of view or be a Christian to participate, and there’s always bound to be at least a couple Formosans in attendance. Plus, it’s often a lot of fun (e.g. last week my wife won the paper airplane flying contest and blindfolded pictionary was quite the battle royale!) If anyone’s interested in checking out Thrive, feel free to let me know.