This was at the time that “making love” was something that Fred Astaire did to Ginger Rodgers on the Silver Screen and not what us young folks think of it today.
There are loads of misconceptions about this expression, the most common being that it had something to do with the way two spoons rest together so nicely. Nice thought, but not really on the mark.
Oh, IC.
The image of playing spoonscame to mind.
not bragging or anything but I’ve had the honour of doing it in publlic here in Taiwan, and whats more, with a local married woman!
We did it in her car in a car park of a shopping area. Blinds drawn, tinted windows, seat fully reclined and she was straddling me and we were going for it with people walking by.
So it can be done. Incidentally, in another city, with the same woman, we have played tongue hockey with each other numerous times in public places.
This is a thread on kissing in public. Do you usually straddle when you kiss?
Dude, that is soooooo not worthy… 
Until you’ve joined The Mile High Club , you ain’t got nothin’ to brag 'bout.
‘N when you hit some turbulence, man, its like doin’ it in a roller-coaster. 
I swear this is true.
I did it in the gardens at CKS Memorial Hall in summer 1985.
Come to think of it, that might have been the last time I did do it.
So help me, this is true. I did it outdoors yesterday at Ta An Park. Met a homely young hooker through tealit, we went for a walk where there are footpaths. Many of these are mostly deserted on the weekdays, but there were some old ladies walking around. We had a long talk.
She was nervous. I gave her a massage, which made her moan really sexy, but not until I slipped a few thousand in her palm did we finally embrace in one of those concrete pagodas, where we could have seen anybody coming, and they could have seen us too.
As we kissed she pretended to become dizzy and weak, and was acting almost drunk. (Low blood pressure, perhaps? Or bad acting?) Not unconscious, mind you–as my kisses wandered and our clothing fell away, she would cling to my head and back, and her legs wrapped around me, kicking vigorously, trying to get away.
She said she was a virgin, but she was already 33. Afterwards she felt surprised and a little guilty because I came all over her blue dress, but she was smiling and playing with my pubic hair at the same time. She said the experience was just like a XXX movie. But I didn’t catch if she meant a Japanese porno flick, or a Swedish one.
So entertaining and amuzing!!! By the way, are you so sure she was a virgin? Maybe she had exactly the same experience many times. You know, you never know…
Sure I’m sure. The sensations could be faked with surgery, but how many women would bother with that for a first date? That’s honeymoon stuff.
And it is a nice sensation. Not just physically, but also emotionally. You don’t get that kind of depth of feeling from women who have been around too many times. Once you get hurt, or have several lovers, I think you lose the ability to ever fall in love as deeply again. I think that’s why I’m attracted to the innocent doe-y type. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t go hunting virgins on purpose, but I’ve had my share come my way.
You’d be surprised how many Taiwan girls keep their virginity until their twenties. After all they’re supposed to study all through school (which is usually segregated anyway), and obey their parents, and not date until they’re in college, and then live at home until they’re married. Of course a lot of them–maybe half?–do it anyway, but then that leaves half who don’t, which is quite a lot when you think about it. (I bet there are statistics for these things on the net somewhere.)
And then when they reach this age, their bodies are desperate to fulfill these physical and emotional needs, but they have little experience with men or relationships. Lines that women back home would laugh at you for (like “I think we were fated to be together”) get a wide-eyed innocent response here (“You really think so?”). And when put together with men who have ten-plus years of dating experience, they hardly know what hit them. It’s a wonderful feeling, being with somebody like that–like swimming. In fact I worry sometime that it’s a drug I’ve gotten hooked on.
You mean you guys did not use any protection? condom? contraceptive? Well then, stupid girl, stupid you!!! :?
Well it’s a scientific fact that girls can’t get pregnant the first time (but I’m a moron who knows jack shit, so please disregard). And anyway it would be a shame to cover up and miss out on all the details. But I have a personal code of honor that says if taking her for a cherry soda is a touchdown, then I want to make the field goal too. You know what a field goal is, right? Pulling out of the parking lot, shooting the windows out of the jewelry store, then giving her a pearl milk tea necklace, which every woman is sure to appreciate. I’m such a he-man that I just couldn’t help sharing my prowess with everyone here.
This post has been sanitized and the poster has been hung with his own pearl necklace. Hehehehehehe
Sorry to burst your bubble Wayne, but where did you learn that scientific fact? My mom got pregnant the “first time”, and she’s got my older brother to prove it. And even worse, her doctor informed her that the hymen was still intact… she was technically still a virgin because she and our father had only been petting, and he didn’t even hit the target, but he came close enough for one little bugger to get where he needed to go.
J.
Well then I guess if Jesus wants her to get pregnint, she getpregnint. Anyway we practice two methods of birth control now–rhythm AND (when I can get it up, which isn’t very often), withdrawl, so actually that’s three methods.
These two can’t even be called methods of birth control. My god!! Have you ever received any sex education?
Actually the more details your described about your first contact with that silly girl, the more I feel you were just bluffing. Too many flaws in your posts!
Anyway let’s turn to the birth control issue. Many men only pursue their own pleasure in sex, and don’t give a shit about the impact on the women involved. If a man really loves a women, would he put her in danger of potential abortion? Abortion is very harmful to a woman’s body. But even sadder, many “innocent” girls don’t know how to protect themselves.
why would you use the word “love” in response to wayne’s posts? reminds me of the main character in the movie kids.
Don’t flatter him. . . he’s probably closer to the characters from Crumb.
OK Wayne, you’re doing well. You have at least two – big ones, too – that have taken the bait, but you need to strike fast! Remember, if you fail to set the hooks properly, they’ll escape. Good fishing!
Actually the thing that bothered me the most was that he referred to the point after a touchdown as a field goal. For god’s sake it’s an extra point or point after touchdown, not a field goal. If you’re gonna use lame sports metaphors at least get them right. 
I probably did not make it clear. I never said “love” was involved in their sexial relationship (yet). That paragraph I wrote is just my comments regarding the issue of birth control, in general.
Call me a big mouth, but I’ve got to say this. The “pearl necklace” thing is so lame. Come on, I thought only Japanese men like that! Did you watch too many Japanese porn movies? 