[quote=“cableguy”]I am sorry if I have given you the impression that I don’t think my fellow Americans are nice and accepting people, especially where different races are concerned. I truly think that most Americans are very good people who are willing to accept many different races.
However, my original point was that America, on a hole, is certainly not a society in which a person’s racial background is not a factor in life. I really wish this weren’t true but I believe it is.[/quote]
Well of course it’s a factor in life. that’s a broad point and i certainly wouldn’t deny it. i admit i am talking about a much narrower point, and i also admit it is probaly not true for the country as a whole. however it’s true for the only country i know, and for a part of it that tends to be on the forefront of trends.
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Thus, when the couple is mixed, say Asian and white/black, then I personally think it is almost impossible for that fact to be overlooked.It is certainly, I don’t think, the same situation as when the couple is of the same race, say Asian/Asian, black/black, white/white, etc.
So, even though a person may not say anything to the mixed-couple’s face, when the person is meeting with his/her friends, they will most likely mention that he/she met so and so, the white guy who has an Asian wife. WHile this is not a major thing, it does show that the couple is not seen in the same way as a same race couple.[/quote]
oh, it would certainly be noticed, and commented upon. regrettably for purposes of race relations, we do not live in a color blind world. But seriously, I doubt anyone I know would identify me in that way. personally, I would never think of identifying someone in that way
asian/black/hispanic/non-white wife? big deal. in ny such a couple is not seen differently than anyone else in any substantial way.
By the way, you still haven’t answered my question. It seems we may be arguing apples and oranges here!
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Perhaps I am wrong about all this. Maybe America has truly become the melting pot that utopian seekers always hoped and believed it was. However, one look at the evening news in the states shoud be enough to dissuade most people of that rather innocent notion.[/quote]
that is a utopian notion but if it ever happens anywhere i believe it will be in the us.