MrsHill and I are going to be apart from now until Christmas. (Work related, not a bust-up.) I feel she is already getting bogged down in work, and missing Tom. The niggles are starting up too. (all from her of course, Tom is perfecto!)
How to keep those relationship sparks a cracklin’ when you have to be apart for a period of time?
webcams. Phones are fine, but being able to see one another makes a difference. Deadlines are good too. And Christmas isn’t so far off.
Good advice Jaboney. It’s all a bit like the occasional kerfuffles here on Forumosa, they likely wouldn’t happen if you were sat in the same room. Miss Huang and I lived apart for quite sometime, silly mis-communications were a constant bugbear.
HG
Don’t forget the phone sex!
Drop her off at the airport, head STRAIGHT for the titty bars and whorehouses.
I don’t know, works for me…
[quote=“the chief”]Drop her off at the airport, head STRAIGHT for the titty bars and whorehouses.
I don’t know, works for me…[/quote]
And how to stop HER unhappiness? Give her Bubba2Guns number, I suppose.
[quote=“TomHill”][quote=“the chief”]Drop her off at the airport, head STRAIGHT for the titty bars and whorehouses.
I don’t know, works for me…[/quote]
And how to stop HER unhappiness? Give her Bubba2Guns number, I suppose.[/quote]
Damn sure bet she’d come back appreciating YOU like never before…
Mail yourself to her, one piece at a time. This will show her how much you miss her, and how dedicated you are to her and to your relationship.
Or alternatively, one turd a pop . . .
HG
[quote=“TomHill”]MrsHill and I are going to be apart from now until Christmas. (Work related, not a bust-up.) I feel she is already getting bogged down in work, and missing Tom. The niggles are starting up too. (all from her of course, Tom is perfecto!)
How to keep those relationship sparks a cracklin’ when you have to be apart for a period of time?[/quote]
I’ve been in two long term relationships where I was required (also for work purposes) to be seperated for a period of a few months. Unfortunately neither of those relationships lasted the seperation. So whatever you do, DON’T take my advice on the subject… 
Good luck and may the coming months pass in the wink of an eye.
[quote=“the chief”]Drop her off at the airport, head STRAIGHT for the titty bars and whorehouses.
I don’t know, works for me…[/quote]
Don’t you ever try to combine those two 
Mine has to stay away for a month or two now and then and msn and skype and frequent e-mails keep us tight together.
Missunderstandings sometime lead too unplesant verbal fights.
[quote=“TomHill”]MrsHill and I are going to be apart from now until Christmas. (Work related, not a bust-up.) I feel she is already getting bogged down in work, and missing Tom. The niggles are starting up too. (all from her of course, Tom is perfecto!)
How to keep those relationship sparks a cracklin’ when you have to be apart for a period of time?[/quote]
Ummm, based on that criteria, best ignore me too!
HG
Mail yourself to her, one piece at a time. This will show her how much you miss her, and how dedicated you are to her and to your relationship.[/quote]
Which part should be sent first 
surprise her from time to time with something: in the mail, SMS, phone call. eg. have flowers sent to her work or something. Chicks dig that stuff. Dunno if it’s different when you’re married, but conjugal visits are a must.
tomhill,
keep her itching at all costs.
send her a bucket load of your dirty laundry. tell her you want it cleaned and pressed.
send her all the dirty dishes, and tell her to hurry up and wash them because you have nothing left to eat on or cook with.
call her and describe your rashes and toe jam. perhaps send her a sample so she gets it straight.
she should be so hot and bothered by now that all she has to think about is that flight back.
works everytime.
Actually this is perfect, tell us what you did, then Tom can do the exact opposite.
[quote=“bismarck”]
I’ve been in two long term relationships where I was required (also for work purposes) to be seperated for a period of a few months. Unfortunately neither of those relationships lasted the seperation. So whatever you do, DON’T take my advice on the subject…
Good luck and may the coming months pass in the wink of an eye.[/quote]
I was separated from my wife for a while before we were married. Send an email or letter every day. You don’t know how much the effort for every day will mean to her. At least that’s my experience.
I’ve been separated from my wife for two years. She doesn’t contact me, I don’t contact her. Life couldn’t be better.
Then I feel bad for you. We’ve been (mostly) happily married for 4.5 years now.