Married in Taiwan, Spouse doesn't want to register marriage in home country (France)

I am Taiwanese, and my French husband and I recently registered our marriage in Taiwan. Logically, we should apply for marriage transcription so that our marriage would also be recognized in France. However, he is now telling me that he doesn’t want to continue the process to make our marriage legally valid in France.

His reason is that the process is too troublesome and time-consuming. He also argues that since we both live in Taiwan, there’s no need to register the marriage in France. He claims there are absolutely no benefits to registering in France, only drawbacks—and that all the drawbacks would fall on him.

I honestly don’t understand this logic. I’m wondering, are there others who have registered their marriage only in Taiwan without registering it in their home country? What were your reasons? What are the implications of not registering the marriage in your home country?

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I’m from the U.S. and married my Taiwanese wife in Taiwan, and someone can correct me if I’m wrong, but from Googling, I don’t think I need to register in the U.S. because there’s no marriage database. The U.S. recognizes foreign marriages.

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I am from UK married to a Taiwanese, in Taiwan. Our marriage is recognised in UK without any need to go through any other process. My cert. from Taiwan is in both local and English languages, which is sufficient proof.

(Edit olm: Note that UK is a spacial case and cannot be compared to France)

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To register my Taiwanese wife in my country is a big mess. There is not embassy in Taiwan, not hague apostille. It is not worth it for now and there is not benefits if we don’t live there.

But not sure in France how difficult it is.

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Correct. Same situation.
Never need(ed) to formally register marriage in U.S.

What are the drawbacks?

I was only married in Taiwan and it isn’t possible for me to register in Australia as Australia recognises foreign marriages, same as the US people above. And it doesn’t change anything in our daily life anyway.

Not sure how France works but if it isn’t going to change anything in your daily lives and is a big hassle then I wouldn’t worry about it.

If it isn’t a big hassle or will change something important then you guys should make the effort

Ditto. Married in Taiwan, and Australia recognises foreign marriages.

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It being a pain-in-the-ass and not having a specific reason to do it seems like a valid enough reason for me.

After getting myself a Taiwanese Marriage-based ARC, my wife a US green card, and my Children US passports from Taiwan, I feel like I’ve had enough bureaucracy and paperwork for a lifetime.

Potentially if you guys ever move back to Europe you could cross that hurdle then?

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Is the US as painful as Taiwan bureaucracy wise?

I applied for my Taiwan spouse ARC then naturalised (including renouncing and resuming Australian citizenship) and applied for my husband’s PR (basically same as a green card).

The only bureaucratic nightmare was on Taiwan’s side.
Australia was all very straightforward, PR is just slow and requires lots of documents but nothing ‘difficult’

I had previously had a working holiday visa in Taiwan and THAT was a bureaucratic nightmare

Getting married took us about 15 mins in Taiwan :rofl:

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What’s your reason for wanting to get the marriage registered in France if you don’t live there?

If I got married in Canada to a foreigner, then registering my marriage in their foreign country wouldn’t even be on my mind

It is the law/required in some countries - Taiwan for example

To my knowledge, if your husband doesn’t have an ARC yet, and wants to get one through a JRFV visa. You will have to legalize your marriage in France, otherwise he will not be able to get an ARC. Don’t know your husband’s current status.

What @vincent_vega posted is the only reason to register the marriage in the foreign spouse home country. It is a requirement for getting a spouse based ARC. If the foreign spouse already has a valid ARC then registering the marriage abroad is pointless.
*This requirement can be waved if that process is not possible in the home country.

There are many other ARC types one can still get.

This is incorrect. I changed to a spouse-based ARC a few months after getting married in Taiwan, before I even initiated the process for registering my marriage in my home country. The paperwork in Chile is so damn slow, that I’ve had my spouse-based ARC for two years already and my marriage hasn’t been approved there yet.

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I didnt register my marriage in the UK when i got my JFRV.

(Edit olm: Note that UK is a spacial case and cannot be compared to France)

Of course you didn’t. Would help to say as to why. This requirement was waved in your case. Your situation does not apply to other countries. e.g. France in this case

As of January 1, 2014, he British government no longer offers the service to register marriages that take place abroad.
Marriage certificate registry service discontinued for overseas Brits - GOV.UK

In USA one also can’t register one, since a register does not exist.

It is a strictly enforced requirement. One need to show the registration or that it is not possible.

Then tell BOCA their website is wrong. And help people like @Fuzzy_Barbecue to get spouse resident visa without registering Taiwanese marriage abroad A foreigner’s experience in 2018 trying to get residence visa for a Filipina Wife


Original and one photocopy of marriage registration issued by competent authorities of the applicant’s country.

https://www.boca.gov.tw/cp-166-280-9f808-2.html


If one party is a Foreign National, file for marriage registration first at your respective embassy or consulate, for information on the consular district designated by the Bureau of Consular Affairs of R.O.C.(Taiwan) , please visit http://www.boca.gov.tw/content?mp=2&CuItem=2306

https://www.roc-taiwan.org/ph_en/post/683.html

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Doesn’t that technically mean that in the US, your marriage is only valid if you show up in the US and hand over the documents when you want/need the marriage to be enforced? Otherwise, no one would know…? (I guess this would be a problem in general in the US though, not just for overseas marriages)

I was married before 2014. I got my jfrv before 2014.

I didnt need to register it to get my jfrv.