I have lived in Taiwan almost 2 years and have read many of the posts here on Forumosa, but just never bothered to register or comment. Well I’ve read a lot of drama here in the past 2 years. Now I have my own. It’s not a joke or fiction, but a really screwed up situation.
A lot of weird shit happens here and what happened in my case is something I’m trying to deal with and figure out. I can’t believe I writing this but I think I need too!
Late last month my twin sister came to visit me. She travels a lot and while I’d never been out of the USA before hitting Taiwan she’s been to 10+ countries, parties, it up and has a job as a sales rep, so she’s on the go around the USA and wherever, different boyfriends, eccentric friends, etc. We are twins but I’m a little more reserved. She came during her (well our) 26th birthday and did some partying in HK before coming to visit for a week.
Like a lot of you guys here I have or had a Taiwanese GF. My girl is/was a recent college grad working a shit job and she often stayed at my place where she could chill and not listen to her mom nag. She’s shy but not as reserved as a lot of 20ish girls here but partly because she’s 5’10" about 130 and thinks she’s too tall and fat (GOD!), but lately she had just been moody and drinking more and I don’t mean green tea.
Well I told my GF my sis loves to party and will want her to accompany sis to the hangouts, stores, nightmarkets etc, since I have to work til 9:30 pm every night except Sundays and live in Mucha-work on Ren Ai Road. I thought it would be good for practicing English and to get shit off her chest. I’d hang with them when possible.
They hit it off right away, my sister gave her a big hug at the airport and kept complimenting my GF on her looks, style blah blah… I hung out with them a bit the first 2 nights but I have to turn in early most days. Then on Thursday I ate something at lunch that F-ed up my stomach pretty badly and I started vomiting. By 5pm I told the boss I had to bail and went home soon after.
By the time I road home I was sweating and spent. I got up the hill to my place which is a small 2 story apt, both floors are rented by me. I opened the door and was about to bounce onto the sofa for a minute, then happen to see a couple bottles of beer and a load of those Smirnoff Ice coolers on the table then I stop, and focus and I hear the faint but unmistakable sounds my sister’s voice and my girl’s both moaning and groaning and freakin expletives of lust! I’m WTF!!! But then I take off my shoes and quietly walk upstairs. The door to my bedroom is wide open! There is my sister bent over ass naked with my Taiwanese GF behind her naked except for her bra with a strap-on … into my sister!
I’d be a liar if I wasn’t embarrassingly turned on for a second or 2 but then I shouted “What the F— is going on!” I scared them half to death! My GF almost fell off the bed my sister was like “Oh Sh-!” My girl took the sex deivce off and grabbed her clothes and tried to run out. I grabbed her and she said sorry about 20 times, not looking me in the eye! She then yells for me to let her go and I do! I can see she is stumbling out a bit drunk and I’m now kinda shocked. My sister covers herself up and says "Look it just happened, she was ehhh, bi-curious with a smirk! I tell my sister I know you got her drunk and instigated this. Then to fucking get her stuff and find a hotel!
Under 15 minutes later I’m alone with an upset stomach and now headache trying to figure out what went wrong. My sister called me a few hours later and told me to take it easy we didn’t do anything wrong etc etc. I was still pissed and hung up on her.
After a dozen cell phone calls GF finally picked up and told me she was sorry again that she got drunk, but also that we were “broken” now. She says she’s lost her face, lost her head and did not want to be with me anymore, but it’s not my fault ?!?! I told her It was OK! I’ve been with her for 6 months and have never been to her house and her 1 really good friend won’t help me find her. I keep calling and she won’t pick up.
I went to visit my sister the day before she left and my sister and I got into a shouting match and my sis told me the previous day they had done the same thing. I left and was angry again.
My sister won’t talk to me now and my GF is gone. I’m lost. I have forgiven them both but neither will communicate. I am just hoping they’ll call. I really don’t know what to do. maybe I overreacted but it sucks! I’m in limbo.