rtc_id,
I agree with Sandy that you made a very interesting first post to Forumosa. Good on ya, for writing such a well crafted intro.
I have no doubt that you’ll get a lot of informative replies from people who are in very similar boats to yours - white collar expats with families, and as I’ve never been the former or had the latter, let me sound off on two issues…
First: You’ll find that life in Taiwan can be significantly cheaper than middle class life back in the USA. Not in all ways, but if you are liberally supported by your company, you and your wife should be able to realize one of the main dreams of all white collar expats - more SAVINGS. One of the great things about being a business expat abroad is the opportunity to get away from all the spending pitfalls in the States, and to take advantage of some of the U.S. government’s tax breaks for U.S. citizens who reside abroad [This is a fairly complex issue that some Formousans are very knowledgeable about, so ask around].
To help give you some context to relate to, I’d be surprised if ANY of the local staff of your Taiwan branch earns more than $60K/year. That’s a pretty good upper management income in Taiwan, and most people earn less, or a lot less than that. (Expat, white collar, managerial Forumosans can probably be more precise about salary ranges in companies in the ROC, but my point is that the country is geared up for a lower pay range than what you are used to in the States, and you’ll find that your US based income will go relatively far)
Second: I can