New Years Resolutions

Actor and former governor of California Arnold Schwarzenegger is offering up his advice on motivation and achieving goals on New Year’s Day, writing on X that building a routine is “the only thing that works.”

“As you start today with all the motivation in the world, remember this: it won’t last,” the bodybuilding legend said.

Build a routine. Do it no matter what. When you really can’t, don’t quit or beat yourself up, just do it the next day. Show up, over and over,” he continued.

Schwarzenegger made the remarks in response to a Dec. 19 post in which he said, “My best advice is to stop using motivation as your only fuel.”

“I know it feels great when you’re fired up, but it’s a short-term fuel source. That’s why the vast majority of people who start anything — diet, fitness, new projects — don’t finish. They run out of gas,” the actor said at the time.

“The only lasting fuel is routine. And you only get a routine by dragging yourself on the days when you have no motivation. Over and over,” he added.

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I like this. Just show up.

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I struggled with this. I thought I no longer had a drinking problem because I only drank once a week or so. But when I would drink, I’d binge. It was affecting my mental, physical, and emotional health and I realized it was a type of self-medicating to forget about my problems. But it just added to my problems and I felt like shit more often due to it. It was tough but when I finally cut it out I didn’t really miss it. I wish you the best of luck!

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Thanks. And I will definitely consider stopping altogether if I find I can’t control the binging, which is now only about once a month. Most of the time, it’s 2-3 drinks of slow sipping. I feel fine the next day when I do this. I stopped for one year a while back just to see if I could do it, and I honestly didn’t feel any of the supposed benefits. But I know for some people, 100% abstinence is the best thing to do.

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Do you get the red flush when you drink @marasan ?

No. Nobody in my family does. My genes were made for drinking. (That’s actually part of the problem! You should see our extended family gatherings.)

I’m trying to be a better leader by keeping high standards while changing how you respond to mistakes. shifting from judging outcomes to coaching the thinking and process behind them.

It’s hard for me because I naturally see systems and consequences instantly, so errors feel obvious and emotionally urgent, even when others haven’t yet built the same mental map.

It’s hard for my team because they don’t have my reverse-engineering intuition, so they experience my clarity as pressure rather than guidance.

The work I’m trying to do is learning to slow my insight down into teachable steps, so competence can grow without fear.

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Ah I see.

I was going to scare you to help haha.

But if you get flushed. It increases cancer risk significantly. It’s your body not being able to flush a toxin that’s carcinogenic.

Drinking already still increases your risk of cancer and if it was discovered today it would be banned or at least have a cancer warning.

People blame things like gout on food but alcohol is often the main culprit

I hope you the best on your sobriety. Myself limiting alcohol to a few drinks this year on occasion has been really helpful. I won’t say life changing as i was never a regular drinker. But it’s definitely unnecessary

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Mine is to complete the Western Arthurs Traverse in Tassie.

My resolution last year was one girly drink per week, I think I managed that one pretty well.

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Bunch of wusses here what’s the world coming to. :laughing:

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Maybe our ancestors were so bad ass manly drinkers and drank so much, that only the wusses survived. Either that, or the women got so fed up they refused to marry drunkards for a for generations.

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I was happy with 2025 personally, so I want to make the resolution to do even better in 2026

  1. Drink better thus less, life is too short for a bad wine

  2. Exercise more, I could do more on bad weather days

  3. Work less, I already cut it a lot these last couple of years, but could still reduce the hours for health reasons

  4. Eat better, refuse to just grab a sandwich from 7-11 however interested I am in finishing the task at hand

  5. Reducing my Fear and Greed decisions in the stock market, follow the strategy however painful it is

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24 inch monitors

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  1. To move to taiwan before july :slight_smile:
  2. start & max out my roth IRA
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I want to add be a better partner and set better boundaries with her parents.

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And to somehow try to acquire that many bassoon reeds along the way. Though those look more like oboe reeds to me.

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#myjokebutworse

Seriously nobody makes 24 inch 4k monitors (though to be fair the size might make the resolution irrelevant). But OLED, HDR, whatever all require 27 inch or above.

Which I rather not have because 24 inch is already taking up too much space on my desktop but I need a new monitor because mine is having flickering backlight.

I guess when I was in high school 21 inch monitors were considered premium.