Really? I’ve been here for 20 years and it seems to me that many old folks here are obsessed with physical appearance (or at least certain aspects thereof). 
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older folks = my dad’s generation, so at least 30 years ago…
My mom dated a guy with a micropenis. She broke up with him once she saw it and he reacted badly saying he would sue her.
I did a search for “micropenis” (never heard the term before) found lots of articles…no pics though. Oddly enough I already have a pic of one on my comp (don’t ask).
I don’t think a link to it would break any rules since a photo of a penis (especially an unattractive one) doing nothing isn’t porn. But I’d like an OK from someone before posting the link.
Whoa…
[color=blue]Mod Note:
Let’s not post any links to a penis. We can all visualize what a tiny penis might look like, and those who are more curious are certainly welcome to do a search on google! [/color]
Actually, for folks who are less endowed or who have underdeveloped genitals or extremely low sex drives, there are a whole lot of alternatives than giving up on sex completely. There are also some folks who believe they are physically incapable of sexual desire or behavior who are merely conditioned to that behavior. For instance inorgasmia is quite often caused by an emotional block rather than a physical one. Those who have low sexual drives can also learn to build their drives and increase their erotic sensitivity through appropriate processes. I have met a whole slew of folks who believe they can’t enjoy sex or physical pleasure who soon discovered they could with spades. While a dating agency for folks with a certain condition might seem worthwhile, it is basically solving the “problem” by avoiding it rather than teaching folks to enjoy relationships and their sexuality in ways that engage their emotions as well as their bodies. A lot of folks don’t realize that the genitals are only part of the body’s sexual response system. While the equipment certainly is important, the major player is the mind. If women can be taught to have orgasms without any physical contact (been there, done that . . . lots of times) then men who are physically less endowed can also be taught to experience sexual pleasure through the emotional-physical feedback loop and to learn to relax without performance anxiety related to equipment but to enjoy the pleasure response cycle of pleasing an appropriate partner and receiving pleasure.
Yes, there are people with extremely underdeveloped genitalia but most folks who classify themselves as asexual or extremely undersexed are potentially well within the norm. Looking for a mate who can’t have sex becuase you are afraid of it is a cop out and robs one of what is essentially a very important part of being a person. Well, to me at least, sex is an important part of a healthy relationships, the enjoyment and bonding and the whole sweaty beast-with-multiple-backs bit.
All the best,
Brian