I don’t think DB meant any insult… I read it as sincere concern for your well-being.[/quote]
No, no I didn’t mean any insult…oh well, just one more to put on my “ignore list”. :?[/quote]
Wait a minute. Did you read my reply to Tigerman. If you did you’ll see that you got me all wrong. I know you didn’t mean any insult, just the “feeling” of going back is like that, if you know what I mean.
Take a read of the post.
I think you’ll understand that taking steps backwards is not an option.
You’re a dude DB and I certainly wouldn’t want to rattle ya or be on your ignore list
[quote=“Spack”]“Catch up to where you should be…” That’s an interesting way to look at it. You make it sound like a race! Who has the most at what age…
What else, apart from a house, do you feel you should have at this stage of life?
Who or what stipulates what you should or should not have? Are these standards you’ve set yourself or are you comparing to other people, keeping up with the Joneses?[/quote]
At one stage in my life I was in financial services with one of the biggest assurance companies in the world. The biggest in the U.K, you should know the company. I was a retirement funds advisor, a boring job and that’s why I left, and learnt a lot about retiring and still being able to live.
To be a financial stable adult you need to plan ahead. Yes, plan. Nothing is left to chance. You can’t eat your house when you become to old or too sick to work. I have a plan, goals, and a strategy to secure my financial future. I know what ages are best for achieving certain goals. I am at the end of 1/3 of a longer than average life expectancy and should be at certain financial targets. At this stage I am a little short of the mark, but that is fixable.
Keeping up with the Joneses doesn’t interest me, there is always someone with more than you, always. I am not interested in massing a huge amount of things and gadgets. More often than not I lead a life of sacrificing things that I want for those that I need. A basic economic concept is “needs and wants” and being able to identify clearly what they are - needs or wants.
Money is not something that I am interested in storing up and using selfishly, that’s not me. The more money I have, the more things I can do and the more choices I have.
Financial freedom is all about choices. Right now I don’t have a lot of choices or freedom. Wouldn’t we all want to be able to have more freedom and the ability to make more choices in our life.
I desire the abiltiy to make the choices for my life and do that which is important to me. Don’t you?