[quote=“Loretta”]So here’s a question.
I used to know a girl who was adopted as a baby by a normal white couple in the UK. She happens to have black skin, but her adoptive parents and siblings never considered it to be an issue and she grew up surrounded by people who respected her as an individual.
She’s never considered herself ‘black’ because it’s a meaningless label to her and the people in her life. She hasn’t had to deal with any of the discrimination or lack of opportunity claimed by the aggrieved minority either.
So, do I owe her an apology? She’s the descendant of slaves and I’m a whitey.
Or is she now ‘white’ and has to apologise to the black community?
Or is it just possible that some people, regardless of their skin colour, can just get on with their lives without being labelled as anything by anybody?[/quote]
Interesting eh? I often wonder what would happen to those people in the States, for example, who read in a book that they were descended from Irish peasants forced out of Ireland by the cruel British, if they suddenly discovered to their horror that they were actually descended from Scottish plantation stock and the oppressors rather than the oppressed!!! What exact difference would it make to their lives? One minute their ancestors are victims of a great wrong, and the next they are perpetrators of a great evil. You could hear the champagne cocks popping in the psychiatrists’ offices from miles around!
It’s always amused me the way Americans absolutely have to trace where they’re from, black or white. Have you ever met an American who doesn’t know? Myself personally, I haven’t a baldy what anyone older than my grandfather did or where he was from. I assume, being raised a Northern Irish Protestant, that my ancestors came over having been given land taken from Irish peasants, and set about oppressing the Irish with reckless abandon, putting them to the sword for the sheer hell of it and writing to Punch about the gaiety of it all. On the other hand, I think my mother’s side of the family might have been eating second hand soil scraped from the boots of dead farmers given their geographic origins, surname, and the suspiciously high number of Irish-speakers among them. None of this of course matters one iota to anyone with a titter of wit. The whole lot of them in my parents’ generation were school teachers and bankers and engineers and didn’t really want for a whole lot.
YOU as an individual do not, but the nation which historically oppressed her ancestors owes an apology, IMO, to the group as a whole which was oppressed, for the sake of those amongst them who still feel wronged. And it does you no harm to have the nation so apologize, so why get your frilly panties in a bunch over it?[/quote]
Why? For what purpose? Will you require proof of actual oppression? What if I, as a white Irishman, feel such a degree of sympathy with my fellow oppressees (and given that I have not established my own Opressee credentials myself) that I “feel wronged” and require that the apology by extended to those who have, like me, been affected by proxy? And if I am unable to verify my Oppresse credentials, will there be a government fund I can draw on to establish whether my forefathers were murdering Scottish bastards, or poor peasant farmers forced to adopt the name of their masters or starve. The tears are welling up in my eyes and I need an apology fast.
And furthermore, has any thought been given to how agonising it is for a white man whose ancestors may have been oppressed to not be recognised as such without having to show good cause? It’s easy if you’re black because people can see that straight away just by looking at you: obviously every black person who was not born and brought up in Africa and who is not currently there is ipso facto in full and irrefutable possession of proof that at some point some ancestor of his was oppressed, and apologies (or not) are duly extended just in case anyway. How do you think I feel on the anniversary of the potato famine not knowing whether my ancestors were starving to death or putting the boot in? I don’t even know whether to pour myself a commiserative Scotch or a glass of Jameson I’m so confused! Have you ever considered the terrifying fact that I might actually be ENGLISH???
The best thing I think is just to have a General Apology For All The Bad Things That Have Happened and be done with it followed by a huge international orgy. It’s the only way.