I squealed on something only to get a message that someone had beaten me to it, the icon was the same as before. So that doesn’t help. In the old system the squeal option was greyed out when someone had already squealed on it.
Being squealed on doesn’t necessarily mean that you did anything wrong or that the moderators decided that action was needed.
You could send the moderator of the forum concerned a friendly PM along the lines of “Dear Fascist Bullyboy, please have the balls to tell me when you delete my posts just because you don’t have the brains to understand them. It’s people like you who started communism. Love and kisses, someone with more then two neurons”
I’m sure they would understand, problem solved.