Most of the guys who have been here for longer than two weeks must have experiened something along these lines:
‘Sure, I’d love to go on a date with you! And I’m sure my friend/sister/brother/guy who’s more attractive than you/mother will love it too!’
Call me old fashioned, but when I go on a ‘date’, I want to spend time alone with the datee so that the magical process of awkward fumbling and hilariously misread situations can envelop. I feel especially perturbed if I make it quite explicit that I want to go on a date with a girl who then turns up with a hitherto unannounced male friend. Which has happened three times now.
So what do you do in this situation? Pretend that it’s completely normal and engineer some way to be alone for your second date? Stand back with an incredulous ‘woah’ and walk off? The last time I dealt with this by thinking, ‘what the hell’, and started slapping the girl’s arse while winking at the guy - who for some reason departed after a remarkably brief time.
What about if your potential date makes it known that she’s going to bring someone along? I racked my brains and can’t think of any way to politely state a ‘two people only’ rule that doesn’t involve profanities or an amusing anecdote about sausages.
Personally, even if I liked the girl I find this sort of thing a complete turnoff. It says to me, ‘hey, I’m completely inexperienced and brought someone else along on our date because quite frankly the idea of spending time alone with a guy scares the military-issue pants off me’.