The job I’m doing requires me to also teach young learners. These are very young kids who need guidance from a Chinese speaker, and they have a homeroom teacher all day.
But when I enter the classroom, the homeroom teacher does her own thing and lets me teach alone. My problem is, my appearance is very interesting to these kids and they constantly want to play with me. So, it’s hard to fend off these playful advances and it feels like I’m being mobbed all the time.
The homeroom teacher is usually grading papers or doing other things. On the rare occasion I do turn to her to help explain something to the children, I get this odd look as if I’m doing something wrong. They are clearly unwilling to help, and it got me wondering if they might not be paid salary when I’m in the room. It’s the only way I can imagine being so unsupportive to a colleague.
I want to know if I’m being unreasonable myself. I think it’s unrealistic to expect me, who barely speaks any Chinese (and I was also instructed to avoid using Chinese to promote immersive language environment), to be able to control such young children.
It’s also a bad example for these kids. They mob me and see the Chinese teacher raising no objection, so they learn it’s ok to not respect me. You can imagine how that goes over time; my Nigerian colleague has a booming voice and speaks Chinese so they respect him, while I get playful laughter as if I’m a walking puppet show. It’s starting to become a problem, and I intend to tell this school that there should be Chinese language assistance or I’ll quit and find a place that does support me.
So, I’m just asking you teachers out there, am I being unreasonable? I taught in mainland China, the children there are much worse (coz of the anti-foreigner sentiment) but the teaching assistant made everything quite manageable. I’m getting no help here, but are they in the right to expect me to control young children with no Chinese language? I need assistance from a Chinese speaker in class, but it’s more like I’m being ignored by them while they sit there, and kids learn by example.