[quote=“gao_bo_han”][quote=“caltonhill”]
OK, I know this is going to make me unpopular, but here goes:
There were 33 victims at VT, not 32
without in any way condoning what he did, or placing his death on a par with those he killed, it is important to acknowledge that Cho was a victim too. His life is over at the age of 23; his family have lost a loved one.[/quote]
I’m having difficulty mustering sympathy for the murderer. I’ve met people who had to go through counseling, and I know one lady who has been institutionalized twice. Mental illness does not justify murder. Even with the insanity plea a person usually has to prove he or she was incapable of discerning right and wrong at the time of the murder. But Cho was simply filled with rage and hatred…I doubt he would fit the legal definition of insane. Cho was not a victim…he was a perpetrator.[/quote]
I agree in part with caltonhill. Cho was both a victim (of mental illness) and a perpetrator (of a terrible crime). I doubt Cho was happy for much of his life. His actions were not those of a healthy, reasonable, person of sound mind making voluntary, rational choices. To a large degree he lacked control over his actions and emotions. Sure, he knew what he was doing and voluntarily went out and prepared for and committed intentional mass murder and suicide. But he did those acts because he had, for years, beeen under the grip of crazy delusions, pyschoses and madness that caused him to think and act in bizarre, anti-social and irrational ways. I too feel empathy for anyone who is a victim of madness, even if he commits terrible acts while under its grip.
Surely Cho would have been happier if he had been a completely different person, capable of ordinary social relations, interaction, activities, and conversation with others, and a stable, abuse-free sexual relationship with partners, with whom he shared common interests and aspirations, and spent his time in healthy, constructive pursuits for which he received praise, admiration and self-satisfaction. But apparently all that kind of stuff was completely foreign and unavailable to him as a result of his mental state that he was unable to control. For that I do feel compassion for him and for the millions of others who suffer from mental illness (including among my friends and family).
But I disagree that it’s wrong to refer to him as nuts or wacko. Yes, those are not clinical psychiatric terms and someone suffering from madness might feel offended to be referred to that way. But Cho’s dead. Can’t cause him any offense now. And, despite the fact that he was under the grip of a madness that he could not control, his acts were so horrific and caused such devastation to so many people, that in a way I believe it’s a little cathartic to refer to him as wacko. No longer does one need to carefully evaluate the situation to figure out “why?” Instead, totally wacko seems to be such an extreme answer that, for me anyway, it helps bring closure. No need for examining reasons; he was just totally nuts.