I have no sympathy for them. These idiots got what they deserved. (I don’t care if one of you clowns are reading this and flag this comment.) Go cry me a river you clown.
Who in their right mind puts the house and all finances under their wife’s name? (People who deserve to be kicked to the curb… that’s who.) - If there is a choice… house under wives name or rent a house… YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CHOOSE THE LATTER… (unless you want to be on the street one day)
They are the same type of people who don’t get an APRC (because it’s too much hassle) or fail to do their research on things such as maintaining custody of kids after a divorce.
I saw a thread on a guy who signed away his custody upon divorce and then ended up doing a visa run and was trying to get back on a family visa… 
You signed them away buddy.
One of my friends (Taiwanese) was telling me how she screwed her ex husband out of an APRC by getting a divorce a month before the 5 years… (purely out of revenge)