In case you guys/gals don’t know it yet, most women -me included- will rumiate/elaborate/condensate/expand/extrapolate on any given random phrase -but especially the ones generated during an argument- to the N expansion. Such random element will becom the proverbial thorn, and even in the most secure and stable of the females, will fester and in high probability come out in the worst of times.
Which is why I hereby propose that when you argue, you will use a third language not dominated by teh other party, so feelings will come out, but words will not remain to be rumiated upon.
I know this plan has the danger of furthering teh argument even longer, because you will become infuriated at not being able to understand what the otehr person is saying. But it serves you right if you are already arguing in teh first place.
So, instead of arguing, talk it out in a common understandable language like two adults, or babble nonsense like babies.
Walls of silence do not count.
X person says “…Wow, it was a great performance, if your people worked as they danced they would be rich”… :raspberry:
There are so many things you can say about this phrase that nothing is better said at all. And then the guy is left wondering where the wall of silence came from. :fume: