Tomkat splits up!

Life Dating & Relationships
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Actually, from a feminist point of view, it is horrible to think that someone with a modicum of talent -say Nicole Kidman, and yes, I believe Katie Holmes- would actually agree to stay in a loveless and sexless “marriage” for X amount of money and a push up her career. Which is pretty pathetic about Hollywood, being Hollywood already pathetic enough, that a woman would have to resort to that.

So when the press talks about “she did her five years and was gone”, or “she finally saw the light about Scientology… ten years after being with the guy”, the feminist in me has a strong stomach reaction… Whore or virgin, no way out…

And he, Ok, so he’s weird and not nice. Whatever. Now, if you talk about Cruise’s acting, well, yeah, that’s no punches barred, let’s tear each role to strips, and I’m OK. But in an era of TMZ, PerzHilton and twitter, what goes out is really revolting. And not in a good entertaining sense.

Meanwhile, as to gossip goes, I am far more interested in the Johnny Depp saga, and current love interest…

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So, does a straight man when in Sydney hang out in Turkish bath houses, go for naked men’s massasges, and sunbathe naked on Sydney’s only gay nude beach (and signposted as such)?

Sure!

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Excellent.
So when is he going to actually make “The Ginger Man” movie, instead of just teasing J.P. Donleavy. And also give us more of HST. It was his pistol, after all.

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[quote=“urodacus”]So, does a straight man when in Sydney hang out in Turkish bath houses, go for naked men’s massasges, and sunbathe naked on Sydney’s only gay nude beach (and signposted as such)?

Sure![/quote]

He’s a tease! :roflmao:

Seriously, IMHO: If a guy chooses to be so far in the closet, he’s past Narnia, that is his choice. He’ll come out, if he comes out, in his own time. The pain is carried inside, anyways, fit or no fit. Now, if he opens his mouth, we know that the loudest anti are actually also too repressed. I say live and let live, there are enough shades of grey in everything.

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Excellent.
So when is he going to actually make “The Ginger Man” movie, instead of just teasing J.P. Donleavy. And also give us more of HST. It was his pistol, after all.[/quote]

Actually, he’s leaving the movie business and retaking his earlier career as singer. And I’m serious.

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18 shades, I always say.

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Yeah, and probably, he was just hanging out with a friend a really good friend, and he’s so confident in his sexuality he goes to those places no biggie, and he likes to mingle with fans and does not want his gay fans to feel separate and the fans welcome him, and someone invited him there, etc, etc, etc.

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I’d like to see more of Tropic Thunder, less of Top Gun 2.

please!

and sure, a guy can be a long way into the closet, but suing others for slander for outing you is just plain fucking wrong on so many levels of hypocrisy that even a Scientologist has to blush some time.

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I am 33 and he doesn’t like this age?? I guess he’s right. At 33 we get grumpy we women. :wink:

The couch thing was what I first thought of on reading the news…PDA. :unamused:

My problem with Katie was, this guy divorced 2 women, one after nearly 11 years of marriage. If he was a non celebrity, she would never even thought of him. Why leave common sense aside?? She may be a star too…but at the end of the day, you live with a man not a celebrity. Oh and marrying someone with a pre-nup? :thumbsdown: If the vows you take during the ceremony are not enough, you should not marry.

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[quote=“urodacus”]I’d like to see more of Tropic Thunder, less of Top Gun 2.

please!

and sure, a guy can be a long way into the closet, but suing others for slander for outing you is just plain fucking wrong on so many levels of hypocrisy that even a Scientologist has to blush some time.[/quote]

Eggactly. :smiley:

Yeah, that Tropic Thunder character was awesome. If he had played the rock star in Rock of Ages along those lines it would have been fantastic. Alas, yeah, we will have Top Gun 2… maybe 3… 4…5… :astonished:

If he’s in scientology for real, he’s not that close to reality to realize what is hypocrisy. Blush? How?

And read my comment with a grain or salt, remember my job is to turn manure into gold. Publicist dream job, here I come! :roflmao:

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[quote=“divea”]I am 33 and he doesn’t like this age?? I guess he’s right. At 33 we get grumpy we women. :wink:

The couch thing was what I first thought of on reading the news…PDA. :unamused:

My problem with Katie was, this guy divorced 2 women, one after nearly 11 years of marriage. If he was a non celebrity, she would never even thought of him. Why leave common sense aside?? She may be a star too…but at the end of the day, you live with a man not a celebrity. Oh and marrying someone with a pre-nup? :thumbsdown: If the vows you take during the ceremony are not enough, you should not marry.[/quote]

Yeah, the PDA, the couch… But the guy’s a bit kooky, not all the marbles are there anyways. that, celebrity or otherwise, would have been a warning bell.

I dunno about the prenup, Divea. Nowadays, it is 50/50 right from the start (60/40 in my birth country, actually) for a marriage to stick or go. Ten years is a lifetime, most marriages where I come from last maybe 3 to 5 years. Average people my age have been married at least 2 to 3 times. I wouldn’t go for those crazy clauses -5 years, you get one million per year- but at least you should have something written down marking a line along the sand, for if the push comes to shove, a break can be made a civilized and just as humanly possible. And I emphasize the human and the possible. Spoken vows are not enough anymore in this age of craziness. A prenup that covers both parties sort of equally is enough as a starting point.

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[quote=“Icon”][quote=“divea”]I am 33 and he doesn’t like this age?? I guess he’s right. At 33 we get grumpy we women. :wink:

The couch thing was what I first thought of on reading the news…PDA. :unamused:

My problem with Katie was, this guy divorced 2 women, one after nearly 11 years of marriage. If he was a non celebrity, she would never even thought of him. Why leave common sense aside?? She may be a star too…but at the end of the day, you live with a man not a celebrity. Oh and marrying someone with a pre-nup? :thumbsdown: If the vows you take during the ceremony are not enough, you should not marry.[/quote]

Yeah, the PDA, the couch… But the guy’s a bit kooky, not all the marbles are there anyways. that, celebrity or otherwise, would have been a warning bell.

I dunno about the prenup, Divea. Nowadays, it is 50/50 right from the start (60/40 in my birth country, actually) for a marriage to stick or go. Ten years is a lifetime, most marriages where I come from last maybe 3 to 5 years. Average people my age have been married at least 2 to 3 times. I wouldn’t go for those crazy clauses -5 years, you get one million per year- but at least you should have something written down marking a line along the sand, for if the push comes to shove, a break can be made a civilized and just as humanly possible. And I emphasize the human and the possible. Spoken vows are not enough anymore in this age of craziness. A prenup that covers both parties sort of equally is enough as a starting point.[/quote]
Maybe a per-nup is a good thing, who am I to know? But it sounds so sad, so untrustworthy and really humiliating. You know? I love you honey, here is the biggest solitaire diamond for our engagement, here is the Italian chateau wedding, I love you, you are the stars of my eyes, and honey you are sexy and darling I want to have kids with you and share my life with you and want you by my side on beaches and mountains and during hurricanes and the movies, but there is no way I am giving you half of what I own if you dump me so sign this paper, and darling, I trust you with my life, and you are the one who makes my heart beat…blah blah.

I understand not everyone is as stupid or as idealistic as I, but any woman with common sense will see, she means nothing to him, if he needs a bunch of lawyers to tell her what exactly she’ll get if she leaves him. Any decent man would give his ex-wife everything and then some, any decent woman would only accept alimony for the upkeep of the kids and nothing else.

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“No biggie” is probably the last thing a man wants to hear in relation to his being spotted on a nude beach.

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Well, no one has posted this about Tom yet:


:smiley:

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hey can i get a prenup where the ex wife can :discodance: share all my debt ?

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“If a guy chooses to be so far in the closet, he’s past Narnia…”

:roflmao: I like that…may I use it?

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[quote=“the bear”]“If a guy chooses to be so far in the closet, he’s past Narnia…”

:roflmao: I like that…may I use it?[/quote]

Well, it’s actually not original. :blush: So go ahead. :smiley:

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Tom: “After all of the scans we’ve done, the sessions I bought, and placenta I ate, I can’t believe this could happen to us!”

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i obviously dont pay much attn to the cruise man cuz i had forgotten he was into that cult .

Katie did it for suri. Good for her

telegraph.co.uk/news/worldne … olmes.html

get away from the scientocreepists. They are as weird as the falung gong wierdos.

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And the daft woman didn’t know when she was marrying him??? I have never met Cruise, but I know he’s in a religion with a scientific name :loco: , why would you want a kid or a marriage and it took her 6 years to realize her kid will be inducted into the Church?? BS I say, she wants to get out and she’s using the kiddo as an excuse if the reports are to be believed. Truth maybe that she hasn’t said a word about it all and it is media speculation!