Interesting news, wonder if testosterone is the problem, or people are too busy?
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UK: Fewer had sex 10 or more times in the past day, a testosterone problem per BBC?
What? 10 or more times in the past day? If someone does that, sex is either part of their āprofessionā or they probably need an intervention, and if it is a normal daily quota professional (medical) help.
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Wait until youāre married. Then you can change ādayā into āyear.ā 
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Iāll be candid and maybe Iām oversharing or setting myself up for some mockery. But Iāve been married a decade and have sex about once every 3 weeks, maybe once a month at times. I donāt think thatās unusual for people in my age group who have been married for more than a few years and have kids who keep them pretty busy. More than 10 times a month? I donāt think I even got laid that much in my 20s. Maybe for very short periods at the beginning of a new relationship but overall most people just arenāt that randy (or lucky) all the time.
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Itās this old saying, about meeting your new partner in your 20ās and stay together for the rest of your lifeā¦ Every time having sex during your first year together take a penny and put it into a jar, for the following 60 years take out a penny from the jar for every time you get busy together, and you will still have spare change left at the endā¦
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10 times a month.. yea when I was in my early 20s. And eventually even that stopped as that gf got fat.
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I used to work three jobs, elementary school during the day, cram school in the evening, and then online classes late at night. What kept my energy up wasnāt free time; it was theā¦ At least twice a day and on weekends it would be all day sessions (maybe 10 times a day with different girls.) - I had one girlfriend in Kaohsiung another in Taoyuan and another in Hsinchu. I would drive to Kaohsiung on the Friday night, Taoyuan in the morning and then stop at Hsinchu on the way home and bring the third to my place.
Now that Iām married itās still regular, but naturally when you have kids around 24/7 you donāt have those all day sessions.
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Weāre mostly adults here, I think the ones deserving of mockery are those overcompensating in the other direction with strangers onlineā¦
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I answered honestly. If someone reads that as overcompensation, that probably says more about them than it does about me.
Any half good looking foreign guy who comes to Asia in their early 20s would relate.
If you arrived too old then thatās on you.
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Thank you for posting, because for me this seems normal, and from what DrewC was saying it was putting me off marriage and kids etc. But try not to get dragged into the mud slinging of personal attacks, eh guys? Thanks also, @DrewC and others for sharing. I guess like you say,
@PeiHua-Connie Yes, interesting article, thank you for sharing. Itās clearly a very complicated issue, and the article does a good job of going into some of the broad range of experiences with HRT.
As far as the direction the discussion has gone in this thread (partly thanks to the 10 times a day original title, thank you whovever fixed that, @PeiHua-Connie were you click-baiting us? 
), sex is obviously only part of most relationships, but how big a part it plays varies across relationships. Compatible libidos can be very important. As long as the people involved can find ways to all have their needs met without making the other partner(s) uncomfortable, then weāre all good.
But therein lies the rub. If things canāt be worked out then sex could become a big part of the relationship for the wrong reasons, becoming pernicious or even dramatically rupturous. And is the relationship where sex does not play such a big role therefore better, or are passionate but tempestuous relationships worth it? (Of course itās possible to be passionate in other ways.) Again itās a matter of personal choice, with no one able to proscribe answers to anyone else (although religions and societies have tried and are still trying to).
Interesting in the article that some of those interviewed said they didnāt feel themselves. I would be interested in how much libido is a product of genetics, environment, and personal choice, although thatās preobably going off topic. Also whether us high libido types are āfreaksā who
or whether weāre part of a normal spectrum in a similar way to neurodivergency. Thereās a certain species of ape that I often feel has a better way of doing things than us, but maybe I shouldnāt go there either.
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I did not know women are now taking it, besides the obvious female bodybuilders. Thats pretty mad.
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Broad experiences? Mama Juanita?
I heard of fast girls, but sheās a speeder
She said she was hungry and told me to feed 'er
So I got an espresso and a hot burrito
You look real sweet, you fine seƱorita
If youāre triggered by a comment about overcompensating, thatās on you
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Posts as fake as the AI shit he posts lmao
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I get that not everyone relates. Some chapters only make sense if youāve actually lived them.
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10 times a day, including a couple commutes in there? How quick you boys shooting a load?
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The gap between rounds is what matters most
Itās obviously both. But if youāre lastingā¦
Based on the realities I think we can all say there was some (a lot of) exaggeration going on there.
You gotta date most of the girls too, that takes forever and gets boring. There are āopportunitiesā of women who just want to give u a free one but they are few and far between and they seem to disappear as soon as they appear too.
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For @comfy123 itās easy, he only needs 22 seconds per girl including shower afterwards 