I have a woman living inside my home and ….im still the one doing the dishes which was fine as long as there is a dishwasher
And I do not let the woman load the machine because the same said woman has no idea behind the principle of how these machines work !!! She his no idea the things being washed must be able to drain
And I often found that after hours of the machine doing its load and drying that the dishes are not dry and are suspect because she put a cup in there right side up so now there is a cup full of soapy water in the load
And the whole thing has to be repeated
So the woman is WARNED to just put dirty dishes in the sink
Now in sf the house is built in 1946 and has no dishwasher and putting one in will mean a kitchen remodel and 40000 dollars so I have to hand wash
There are two sinks side by side so it’s the old fashion way of filling in one sink with hot soapy water and the other sink with fresh water for rinsing
I have to always tell her since each item has to be individually hand washed pls put the oily dishes in one sink and the dishes that don’t require a lot of work in the other
She mixes them up so for sure each item is now an oily item requiring more work
I sure miss the dishwasher !!!
The trick is to keep the woman out of the kitchen now unless she wants to cook
Which she does wonderfully except I now have a huge load of pots and pans to clean
Why does it take five pots and three pans to cook dinner ? At least the meal was great !
So yes the problems of being a modern man and sharing house work
She cooks I clean (better than me cook and she cleans) she cleans the house I do laundry (again better than the reverse)
Yes it would be better like in the old days where the woman takes care of the house and doesn’t work a job outside the home while the man earns the daily bread
Many women are now realizing that they missed out on a lot of freedom by insisting on equality between the sexes and now have to work outside the home as well as inside of it