I donāt think fetish=depravity although I do have a problem with ones where someone or something is being hurt against his, her, or its will. I had a friend in college who had a smoking fetish. He was into pictures of girls smoking a cigarette. I canāt imagine how he would have handled himself if he spent anytime in the first-floor girlsā restroom of my high school.
Gee, I wonder what was the first thing he looked at when he turned away from his Mamaās ⦠um ⦠castrated bit? (Iām beginning to think that maybe Freud was on to something here.)
============This is what I was looking for. Fetishes are:
===========Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
=========An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
===========French from Portuguese meaning "artificial, charm?, from Latin āfactciusā meaning , artificial.
I guessing he saw a smoldering cigarette. I am not one to really question othersā fetishes, but what on earth could a woman puffing on a cigarette do for someone sexually? Oh wait. Nevermind.
So when a woman has a fetish, what are the supposed causes for it? And donāt say penis envy.
Who says they use their mouths to puff on the cigs? My first year in Taiwan . . . back in 1989 . . . I lived in a little town near Chiayi and would often stumble upon Electric Flower Music Cars (dian-tze-hua-che), the roadside stripshows. Saw a lady smoke a cig without using her mouth . . . same girl picked up a stack of coins with no hands and drank a bottle of pepsi down below and sprayed it into the audience. Her skill with a blowgun with which she shot darts into balloons was something to see - took a lot of pelvic control.
The smoking thing is a combination fetish. For many who have it, they were exposed to an experience that combined nurturing or sensual experiences with a smoking woman or environment - simple conditioned response. However, it does combine oral fixation with the dual biggies or libido and thanatos (combining oneās urges for sex and death, so to speak). Not my cup of tea, but it does seem to be less uncommon than one would think.
Talk about killing two fetish birds with one stoneā¦girls+mud and girls+cars. Maybe if they put them in black vinyl bikinis with a Virginia Slim dangling from their lips they could attract a huge audience.
That doesnāt look like an unusual fetish to me. Typical knight-in-shining-armor fantasy stuff. What man can resist a beautiful woman in dire need? You get her car unstuck, she rewards you with hugs and kisses and sex.
Itās too bad that after several years of living in Taiwan with a scooter Iāve forgotten the basics of car repair
Aw, cāmon, QM, youād pull my car out of the ditch anyway. The only thing is that Iād actually have to spend money buying you a zhenzhu naicha to express my heartfelt appreciation, instead of taking it out in ātradeā.
True. Of course, if this hot roommate you keep telling me about is around, he could always reward me with the hugs & kisses. Iāll abstain from the sex part, except in my fantasies, since my bf wouldnāt be too happy. :mrgreen: