Work.
Neither.
I haven’t met any gay south african but did meet one German… the Germans are really good at it.
How are the Germans really good at it?
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Not sure this is a good place to share such info…
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My question is, are there any gay female or nonbinary south africans in Taiwan?
Unless you put in absolutely zero effort to go to gay places, I don’t know how it’s even possible for a gay man in Taipei to make this statement.
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I’m not even looking for gay white blokes and I know several. 
It’s money…
I like saunas, because you don’t have to go buy expensive drinks for maybe some action, you go there, you get action, however it’s still $$$.
I see and know many around non-gay-expected pubs and clubs. I meet many more that are accepting than homophobic. Thought this was the norm but maybe not.
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People throw this word around but no one seems to know what it means, or can provide a definition that makes sense. Tomboys and boys that aren’t “manly” enough have been around forever. It doesn’t mean they still aren’t normal heterosexual boys and girls in every other way that counts. And we already have a word for bisexual if you mean “gender fluid”. We don’t need to invent a new category for every little human sexual quirk.
Ok Brandon
See?
It’s just a fashion trend to call yourself “non-binary” if you’re not a stereotypical jock or cheerleader, nothing more. It has no real biological meaning and tells you nothing about a person’s sexuality, unless it’s just another word for bisexual. Every kid has a teenage identity crisis and latch onto nonbinary when they’re confused about this weird new world of sex and relationships.
Sounds sad.
The term “non-binary” isn’t supposed to tell you anything about a person’s sexuality, so you might have misunderstood something there.
It isn’t another word for bisexual.
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Ok but we’re in the LGBTQ+ forum. It’s not really what we want in here.
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Well, neither does the term non-binary, since apparently it has nothing to do with one’s sexual preference. It’s just trendy jargon for tomboy.
Same. I sometimes enjoy going to one of the outdoor bars in Ximen for a drink on my own because there’s a high probability somebody - most likely gay and possibly white - will strike up a conversation with me. I’m not gay, but I like meeting new people, gay or otherwise. I’ve also been to plenty of gay clubs and other hangouts in Taipei.
It’s just as well that God made me a shy straight guy. If I was gay, I probably wouldn’t be able to control myself from living a life of sin, especially on Friday and Saturday nights in Taipei!
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I been by that area, but people there mostly ignore me for some reason, no one has tried to strike up a conversation to me at all.