Serious question… I am constantly told by local females here that if I go out with a local girl, don’t break her heart. WTF does that mean anyways? Dating someone doesn’t equal promising marriage… If it did, it wouldn’t be called DATING… And don’t give me this “Chinese culture is just more traditional and innocent” BS, because the eye candy I see on a daily basis is far from innocent/ traditional. No I am not generalizing, EVERY female I talk to says something along the lines of “你們外國人都好花心” at some point in time or another.
So my question is, why is it the guys fault if he breaks up with a girl because he is unhappy with the relationship? Why does that make the man a bad guy? And why is the girl the “victim”?
Now I am not saying “just go out and cheat on your girl and deny all responsibility” If you cheat on your girlfriend, that’s none of my business, but not what I am talking about… I just mean if you find someone better, or if you are not happy with a current situation, why does it always equal “you foreigners just want to play us innocent Taiwanese women, aka fuck and run”? Sorry that is a load of BS. It takes two to tango, and nobody forced a gun to your head saying “date this foreigner”… As a matter of fact, on more than one occasion I met local females, (late twenties) who were very upfront about their intentions for the night… (no I didn’t, because as you can imagine females that upfront are usually a big turn off in one way or another) AKA one night stand… I mean, seriously, how is it a foreign guys fault?