Woman (Age 40+) wanted to live in New Zealand as companion to decent older male

Life Dating & Relationships
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About me: Age 71, of good character. Have been married most of my life and have two adult children, both living overseas (Germany and Canada). I live in a nice house and rent the downstairs rooms out to two very nice younger women that are housemates with own boyfriends. I consider these ladies friends - nothing more.

I am a decent retired man and I divorced in 2012. I have not pursued a further relationship since. I visited Taiwan 18 months ago and liked the people. Now, if possible, I would like to meet a nice woman (age 40 to 60) to share time with me here in NZ. If you, or someone you know, would be interested in living in NZ, I would love to hear from you. Japanese or Taiwanese preferred. I’m not looking for sex (although my system still works, but somewhat idle).. I am essentially looking for a mate..a companion. I’ve never paid for it….and I don’t intend to start now.

Please let me know your thoughts and ask any questions you may have. I will answer honestly.

Regards

Paul

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Have you tried tinder?

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Where’s Almas John? @almas_john

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They won’t be able to live in NZ, Paul, because they won’t have residency status.

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9 months in 18 month period.

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Looks like he’s near a fridge

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Have you seen the movie The Piano?

Maybe go to Philippines for six months and bring one home and marry her . A woman not a piano

You might have many candidates

Taiwan women are usually but not always more tied to their families and to Taiwan and may not want to live in NZ

Also most 40 ish women are wanting sex and may not want a 70 year old. She may be happy to not have sex with you but will have someone else so that won’t work probably. And you be singing that Eagles song Lying Eyes

I know a Chinese 60 year old that likes sex as much as most nuns but she’s happily in Singapore

I wonder if a Japanese woman might work maybe someone 60 ish who is tired of life in Japan and has no real ties there

it’s probably not easy your quest but there might be a workable woman for you

However this forum is almost all men so posting here itself has little chance

You may well need to go live in a place for a year and see if you can find someone in person

Join a church. Many people in church are needing something

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Question is Almas john a woman himself or he has a candidate ? Or at least words ! Most likely words !:squinting_face_with_tongue:

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No thanks. Wrong recipe..

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There 5his magical land in pines called “dumaguete” where old men can get hot 20 to 30 yr old companions or wives. There a small movment in youtube…

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Thanks for your comment. I thought it was worth a try here. Maybe not such a good idea after all.

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No he is a male but has very specialized knowledge of furry playthings in the NZ context. :ewe:

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Thanks. Yes, that was an issue that I knew we would have to overcome, if I met the “right” person.

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I swear my buddy with one leg keeps mentioning this fabled place due to some mouthings of some YouTuber haha . This dum Getty place

I’m sure the ppines got many such places this place was just where some YouTuber got off the bus I suspect

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I’ve come to suspect there is no right person …. there is only a person right now at best

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You’re on a forum primarily frequented by (not always) foreign men. You can’t really get worse than that if your audience is a Taiwanese woman.

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Okay, thanks Marco. Perhaps I should just delete this post, but I seem to be unable to do that. Mod….please delete this post. Thanks

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What is it about Tinder that you don’t like? It’s one of the most popular dating apps in Taiwan.

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On Tinder you’re just a set of data, not a real person. Women see his age and instantly swipe left.

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No they don’t lol.

You can set your own age preferences.

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