my SO lets me use his computer when I am in his house. yesterday while he wasn’t there, I was looking at the pictures we took last weekend…well, I also looked at the other pictures…pictures of his ex. I wish I didn’t do it. there are his ex’s naked photos I feel so odd to see the photos. would you do it if you have a chance?
He allows you to look at his computer, right? Has he taken naked pics of YOU yet? If he hasn’t, I’m guessing that this is his way of suggesting that you’d look good as his screensaver.
Why be embarassed about it?
I looked at my SO’s pictures and she at mine. One can’t help but be intrigued. She’s interested in me? So what did the other guy look like? Luckily there were no naked pics. But she did have some pics that a friend took of himself and his gf shagging. That was interesting to say the least…
Mine has 2 long term exes. One is a close friend of mine and the other calls him about 10 times a minute.
Honestly I would not be able to handle running across nude photos of either one of them. One cuz I don’t want to picture her naked, the other because I would scratch his eyes out if he had nudes of her on his computer.
Wouldn’t put her past sending them to him, though.
I felt embarrassed and guilty for doing that because he trusted me but I looked at his photo albums without permission. knowing that some of you might do it, I don’t feel bad anymore. now I am just wondering why he still keeps the photos…if I had any nude photos in my computer, I wouldn’t let him touch my computer. or I would delete them before I let him.
I wouldn’t think too much about it. He kept them probably because a) they are pictures of a neked woman and b) they are pictures of a neked woman he knows. Most men enjoy looking at pics of neked women.
Maybe he too would have deleted them if he’d known you were going to rumage through his photo folders. Or at least encrypted them.
I’m with Lord Lucan on this one. Perhaps you should let us have a look at the pictures in question, of course only so as we can make a proper appraisal of the situation. We wouldn’t want to be biased one way or the other, now would we?
I don’t have any pictures that I wouldn’t want my husband to see - even the only naked picture (taken by myself) I have he can look at. I have pictures of old boyfriends too, but those I keep in a box that is put away. I’m not hiding my old life from him, I just don’t have the need for it (the old life) too close anymore.
I keep the pictures of family and friends that are important to me.
I think naked pictures of old gf/bf should be put away in a box, if someone still wants to keep them. Not on a computer that has easy acces.
I scan my husbands computer everytime he brings it home (laptop that he use a work too), but mostly for new yellow movies that we can watch together
Why not just tell him the truth, that you saw the pictures on his computer (girls are “computer-studid”, so just say you pressed something wrong when you wanted to open the file you just saved…oh wait, that’s NOT telling the truth…hmmm), you would prefer that he deleted it or put it on a disc to keep away from your eyes. That it bothers you that he still looks at his old girlfriend like that (I wouldn’t like it either, and I wouldn’t be embarrassed that I’ve looked into his computer)
Then say: “if you really need a naked woman to look at, take a picture of me”.