I don’t mean to bother any of you. I just needed some advice and maybe to talk to someone. If you know me in person, I try never to complain, it is just that I feel so lost, that I’ve started to lose interest in life.
I will try to explain. I originally came to Taiwan 3 months ago because I wanted to see the world. I was also getting out of a bad situation in Colorado. I was offered a job in the mainland and I was offered a job in Japan, but I chose Taiwan, honestly because it was the fastest place to get out of the bad situation. I also chose Taiwan because I like modern Chinese history (I took 12 credits of modern Chinese history in university) and I thought it would be a neat place to maybe learn Mandarin. I left without telling anyone.
So, I had job set up. But when I got here, they never told me the hours (I should have been more questioning before I came), but basically I would’ve been working from 9 AM to 8 PM. I could not take the job because I would’ve had no life outside of the classroom. My plans after I started working were to maybe start studying math again with the ultimate goal of maybe going to go to graduate school one day to become a scientist and I wanted to start earning money to do fun things and I also maybe wanted to maybe meet a nice girl and have a girlfriend. But, anyway, I quit my job, for the reasons mentioned above.
I struggled to find a job. But my reasoning is that it was okay, because I had the whole world open to me and that I could always try and find another job, and if that did not work, I could always go to Japan or China. So in about May, I was offered a job at Hess, but I turned it down, because I was waiting to see if an assistant language teacher job could process my visa in time in Saitama. But they couldn’t. So right thereafter, I went back to Hess. They gave me a job, and threw me into teaching with no training. I felt so stressed because of this, so I was offered a temp job in Xihu, so before I could sign the contract at Hess, I left for Xihu. This was probably one of the dumbest things I could have done, because I knew I would feel isolated, not knowing any Mandarin, but I left anyway, and ended coming back a few weeks later, because I got fired because I told my boss that I felt isolated.
So I have been in Taipei for 3 weeks now. It has been very hard to find a job. And being so idle, and not being able to participate in life, not having the self-esteem from working, and not being able to work towards any of my goals; and this over time has just led me to losing interest in life. At first it was feeling down, but now it is like not feeling anything and losing interest in life and feeling that there is no way it will get any better. I was offered a few jobs in the mainland, but I really like Taiwan. Honestly, I know a lot of what has happened to me is my own fault. But I would never say this lightly, I am starting to lose hope and interest, and I didn’t know where to turn.