@Andrew0409 that’s great, kids become bilingual very early on if exposed to both sides of the equation. So in just a few years they can mediate. But that’s also heavy on them. I am glad your parents were mature enough to be able to communicate in whatever way they found suitable until you grew up.
The OP is being showered with a lot of information and stress, one thing he can’t do in go back in time to reverse the marriage, so I regret posting the language problem thing here and don’t want to deviate the thread to another side instead of helping the OP.
So I just initiated a thread about this Marriage without where spouses don’t speak a common language
That way the OP won’t have to read it through here