This totally messes up that baseball metaphor.
Thatâs because the baseball metaphor is usually used by horny teens that havenât even had sex yet. 
The new Prince Valiant movie is looking goodâŚ
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For me, if youâre unable to get at least a peck on the first date, I donât think itâs a match. Sometimes it does happen there is just no opening so maybe the 2nd date at the most.
Huh huh, huh huhâhey BeavisâŚ
I donât think thereâs a universally good pace for the physical aspect of a relationship. Itâs different for everyone. Some people just take a while to warm up, and others donât.
Speaking for myself, if I donât want to jump his bones on the first date, then itâs unlikely weâll go on another. If the desire is there, then I am happy to wait patiently for my cueâŚ
One of my best friends from HS and his wife did not have sex until they got married. They have one of the best relationships Iâve seen as a couple. And heâs a good looking guy, Captain of our school team so hoards of women have been trying to get with him. His wife is also smoking hot, looks like she belongs in SI swimsuit covers.
This is great but also pretty rare. Itâs much more common for abstinent couples to realize only after theyâve gotten married that they are sexually incompatible, and they end up having to seek counseling. Some still work out in the end, but it can be a gamble.
Iâve also heard a couple stories about being surprised by a micropenis too late. 
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That sounds almost crazy. I mean, wouldnât there be at least some kind of intimacy before? I mean before the main event/home run, that is (not kissing as the most intimate among the whole spectrum of possibilities as put forth above).
Some people are really serious about their chastity. And I mean, these guys in particular were probably intentionally hiding this little piece of infoâŚ
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Damn, thatâs coldâŚ
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Not all micropenisers are hiders, donât be so judgemental! My gf showed me a video that was going around her office of some political guy openly getting blown in a wine bar. he had no shame about getting the micropenis out and on camera.
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I didnât imply that. Actually, I really donât think people should be shamed for having a little d. I wish everyone could be that comfortable with their bodies. WellâŚmaybe not that comfortable.
But itâs equally messed up to hide that you have a micropenis until youâve married someone.
I heard a story about that once. Whoever thought up this chastity until marriage shit didnât really think it out.
If the size of the penis is an important thing for you, you should probably not wait until you get married to find out.
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No kidding. Going into marriage without figuring out your sexual compatibility first is like going into marriage without discussing religious views or finances first.
Unless sex isnât important to either party. For some people it doesnât matter. But for most, it does.
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I agree. ButâŚI donât think anyone expects a micropenis, you know? They probably just want to respect a guyâs decision to remain chaste, and thenâŚoh dear.
Or maybe they are also abstinent, and donât realize itâs important until itâs too late.
Basically grounds for annulmentâŚ
âŚwhatâs the clinical definition, asking for a friendâŚ
I disagree. I would say 90% of sexual compatibility is about each party willing to work with the other person. Itâs highly doubtful youâll find someone who is just a perfect match for you. The rest is something you can both work on.
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