If you’re only a liar in the sense that you told a single lie, what’s really the impact? It’s no different than saying that some single statement of yours was a lie. Surely you won’t be marked as a liar for all eternity for that?
I think the point is that saying someone is a liar implies accusing them of having the intent to deceive others. Otherwise, you can just say they are wrong.
And that’s why people take exception to be called a liar.
If you say that I told a lie, you are implying that I had the intend to deceive.
If you don’t know what my intent was, just say “This is wrong” (or incorrect, false, mistaken, etc.), but not a lie.
But what if you’re repeating something that was told as a lie, without you knowing it was a lie.
another example.
I tell you “All hobbits have big socks” when I know that some hobbits don’t have any socks.
you tell your wife “All hobbits have big socks”, and she says that’s a lie.
is she calling you a lier or just informing you that the statement is a lie, and in reality I’m the lier?
Another question would be, is A overreacting to the perceived insult thrown at him or should he just relax and say, “No, this is not a lie.” Is his indignation justified?
The wife shouldn’t say “That’s a lie” if she doesn’t think I had the intent to deceive.
I don’t think someone can lie if they believe what they are saying is true.
I get similar words mixed up and spellcheckers can’t help (the only way I can stop it is by checking every word I write individually with a dictionary to find the meaning, I got special dispensation for it at uni)
I think some one can repeat a lie without knowing it and without trying to deceive others,
I don’t think that makes them a liar, just misinformed.
I also think someone can point out a lie without insinuating that the person is a lier, and that it all comes down to context. We can generally feel when someone is being a cock knocker, or trying to belittle someone and I think that is what needs to be called out.
If I make a statement and some one says it’s a lie, I would normally ask why is it? if I’m in a bad mood or the person is being irritating or being a dick then I may snap back.