Wasn’t… er… much “stronger language” used against gay people? Not that it excuses the cat cafe idiot, but that’s mostly a strict order of exclusion, while the stuff coming from the gym was bordering on hate speech.
Well, that’s a tricky one. I would argue that with the exception of Bowie in his Thin White Duke period nobody is of no color. However, some people are definitely of color - or do you disagree? To what extent identity plays a role is significant.
Had a couple of 15-year-old boys use it, deliberately with the ‘er’ ending, to see if they could get a rise out of me. I just told them to use it on the next black guy they saw- they’d probably just get shitkicked in Taiwan; anywhere in the western world they’d get at least that and the jury would have jail waiting when they got out of hospital.
No, they wouldn’t. If you were Asian-looking, they’d let you through.
I had an altercation at a hospital a while back. I went in for some eye maintenance, and was shoved into the foreigner inspection queue. My wife had to join the other one.
Me: Why am I here and my wife is there?
Them: Because you’re a foreigner.
Me: How do you know that my wife isn’t a foreigner? She could be Chinese, American or Italian. And that crowd is kinda risky, are they not?
Them: smiling We offer special treatment for foreigners, so they don’t have to stand in line!
Me: But my wife could be a FOREIGNER!
Them: OK. She can come here.
Me: That’s not the point!
Wife comes over.
Wife: How do you know that I’m not a foreigner?
Them: Because you look Taiwanese.
Wife: I’m actually from Hong Kong.
Them:" …" suddenly forgetting that they can speak English.