No, he asked who was in the wrong, and pretty much everyone agreed that he was an ass. It wouldn’t matter if he made min wage and was going out to McDonalds - if you invite someone out, especially to repay a favor, it’s bad form to ask them to chip in.
Marco, you are right. This isn’t a story about a dating disaster. It’s a story about me getting high and dodging a (potato) bullet. I appreciate the re-framing of that anecdote.
I didn’t pay for the cookie either. Absolute bonus.
This is simple if you invite a girl and her family a restaurant be expected to pay regardless if it’s a fancy restaurant or Chun Shui Tan (which I love )
Yes and no. Only a few select individuals, our OP among them, can produce such odd stories. And those stories are the ones that get more feedback.
To me it’s more like he took a thirty-foot jumper while standing in a convenience store or something like that. “Sir, this is a 7-11, and you’ve just smashed our window.”
Well not always as far as not liking a cheap person. I was asked out by a girl I knew many years ago that was cheap (not poor, she went to expensive overseas school). She took me to Pizza place that had free Pizza that night for non locals (not Taiwanese) in Taoyuan, I paid a small amount(for her) and she had a free meal haha. My point in this case if it was girl asking him out the feedback maybe would be different.
She helped him with an advertisement scheme where she came up with the idea of telling a story where an invitation to an expensive but autstanding restaurant has been terribly gone wrong.