And in the spirit of openess and fair play I’ll admit that my penis is pert and suprisingly perky for a man my age. Must be all the attention it gets.
I’m in the office. All they have are those 6 inch rulers.
In many countries, the Wang still does rule. Few countries still have a Huang Di, and even fewer a Huang Hou.
Im having man problems? (we need a talk to the hand emoticon) How you know, based on what? Please, I would like to have something to work with. I’d like to know how many of you guys would mess around with a woman who has nipples as breasts and nothing more… 
If the rest of the package is pleasing, I would.
i love long uns!
I’m having man problems? (we need a talk to the hand emoticon) How you know, based on what? Please, I would like to have something to work with. I’d like to know how many of you guys would mess around with a woman who has nipples as breasts and nothing more… [/quote]
Oops, sorry if I included you by mistake. Weren’t you one of the ones who was complaining about men with little pee-pees? If not, sorry.
“Nipples as breasts and nothing more.” What’s wrong with that? I like big 'uns, little 'uns, in-between 'uns, long legs, short legs, fat legs, thin legs, big arse, small arse, short hair, long hair – hell, I even used to have a girlfriend with a shaved head.
Takes all kinds, and I love 'em all. Women are great!
We’re in Asia. You’re acting as if ironing board chests were a non-theoretical situation with the local girls.
I’m having man problems? (we need a talk to the hand emoticon) How you know, based on what? Please, I would like to have something to work with. I’d like to know how many of you guys would mess around with a woman who has nipples as breasts and nothing more… [/quote]
Oops, sorry if I included you by mistake. Weren’t you one of the ones who was complaining about men with little pee-pees? If not, sorry.
“Nipples as breasts and nothing more.” What’s wrong with that? I like big 'uns, little 'uns, in-between 'uns, long legs, short legs, fat legs, thin legs, big arse, small arse, short hair, long hair – hell, I even used to have a girlfriend with a shaved head.
Takes all kinds, and I love 'em all. Women are great![/quote]
You read it wrong, sandman. Im not complaing but i will say that it does make a difference. But i wouldn’t kick you out the bedroom like Imaniou, that’s just a waste of the other ‘talents’ that lie latent within…
I’m having man problems? (we need a talk to the hand emoticon) How you know, based on what? Please, I would like to have something to work with. I’d like to know how many of you guys would mess around with a woman who has nipples as breasts and nothing more… [/quote]
Maybe would should all trade places for a day…
[quote=“bob”] And perhaps I could have mentioned that this was a class of “two” students both of whom had discussed such things previously.
Our students watch “Sex in the City” and a host of other shows and for the most part allow themselves to be influenced by them in an entirely passive fashion. That, in my opinion, is an extremely destructive thing both to our students intellect and to the society they live in. It’s my intention to encourage my students to think about the cultural influences in their lives. Given the particular role that I have in this society it would be irresponsible to do otherwise.[/quote]
Bob, I understand where you were coming from in terms of your leading the discussion now that I know that the class in question was basically a private class. I’m no longer in the teaching business (thank god), but I sure do remember how difficult teaching 1 on 1, or 1 on 2 can be. My hat goes off to you and all the folks making a living doing that in the ROC. It definitely isn’t easy to do, and is very hard to do well. (Give me a class of 8-20 well matched adults any day!)
I admire your zest in trying to challange your students, too. The thing that concerns me (in general) is when Western teachers assume that their way of looking at the world is somehow more logical and sensible, and try and push this on their students. Trust me, this really pisses a lot of Taiwanese students (customers) off, and leaves them feeling that the teacher is disrespectful and cultrually & intellectually arrogant. I can’t emphasize enough how many students go to language schools (often reluctanly) because they regard English as an essential professional skill, and are totally not interested in someone trying to show them that their reasoning methodology or world view are for shit.
It took me a while but eventually I learned to bite my tongue in class, and not challange bullshit notions - which were abundant, (when they were expressed well/fluently/gramatically correct). I realized that, for the overwhelming most part, it was not my job to “re-educate” people, or enlighten ignorance. If the students were interested in my point of view I’d share it (heavily filtered when I knew that my honest reply would cause offense), but I’d let them ask, rather than me lecturing them up front.
I found that if I spoke at length in class (maximum of a few minutes), it was to recount a funny or challanging personal experience. Students always loved these chestnuts, as I’ve been around quite a bit, and done a lot of things that most students had not. Nothing controversial, but pretty entertaining. After 12,000 hours in the classroom that’s what I reckon the teacher’s input should be.
And getting back on topic…
Namahottie, I find your question about men dumping women for being flat chested pretty interesting. As Sandman noted, tits come in all shapes and sizes, and from a guy’s point of view - sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. Sometimes they are a stunningly pert C-cup, enormous sagging mellons, teats not tits, a charming handful, floppy non-entities, or not much more than an errect nipple rising above a rolling plain. Nipples can be stubby, hairy, inverted, or like “pygmies cocks” (as an Irish friend used to say). Sure, the tittie lottery can sometimes be a dissapointment, but real men take things as they come. And no, I wouldn’t kick a girl out of bed becase of the shape or size of her breasts. One of the most orgasmic “screamer” women I’ve ever been with had the somewhat disconcerting aspect of a 12 year old boy when she was lying supine, but her lack of rack never prevented us from tearing it up in the sack.
My guess is that most guys aren’t nearly as shallow in this regard as you seem to suspect.
And then there’s the many splendored wonders of the vagina… labial morphology, vaginal aroma, clitoris size & degree of sensitiviy, quantity and consisity of fluids, pubic hair, the magical hinterland… these are all totally unique with each woman, and yeah, guys do have their preferences, but in the end of the day, we take them all as they come and with sincerity tell each woman we encounter what fantastic pussies they have, because it’s all good. (the double entendres are flowing fast and free now - sorry)
As for you and ImaniOU suggesting that you’d dismiss a guy - as a matter of course - for not having adequate tackle… well, I guess that’s a chick thing. Hard for a guy to understand, but from the outside it does seem somewhat superficial. Guy might not have a great long game, but he could be a master of the chip and putt - and a secure, loving and giving partner to boot. Perhaps ladies like y’all are missing out on great guys (and potentially great lays) when you envoke the well-hung-or-the-road rule. On the other hand, perhaps you’re just being practical and realistic about what your personal needs are.
It seems that N&I (and 914) would argue that yeah, for them “the wang” kind of does rule. Fair enough. I think for most guys, what rules for us isn’t necessarily a woman’s “equipment” (I’d agure we have more depth than that), but rather, happening on a partner that isn’t passive in bed, that knows how to mount bump and grind, that ecstatically shares the work load, who can help us help her get what she needs without being a bossy traffic cop, who loves givng and reciving great head - with or without accompanying coitus, who rolls her head back and repeatedly envokes the name of the almighty and gives free voice to her passion, and who is creative and adventureous. (Occasional willingness to invite hot girl friends into bed, pretty much rules, too. 
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Thanks mwalimu. Looks like we share some common ground after all.
Beautiful “wang” post by the way. Actually I think a lot of this big tit/dick talk you hear is just some people’s way of avoiding flesh and blood intimacy. It is a kind of a “hurt them on the way in” approach that manages to leave most people at home with their dildos and porno.
And if I might, a movie suggestion - “Too Much Flesh.” It is about a guy with an oversized tool and is the most intimate display I have ever seen commited to film.
Cheers.
Yeah. Less about prerequisits, and more about spontanaity and diversity - that’s what I say.
Just looked the film up on http://www.mrqe.com, surprised to find only 3 reviews. Seems not to have popped up on the U.S. film radar, despite the fact that it was filmed in the States - in English. Looks interesting.
something funny i heard one time “Its not the size of the organ that counts, rather the cathedral its playing in”. to get back to the original post i think its not just about the size of it, but how well you are that determines how much they want to have sex with you again.
God, I’m sorry about that Mwalimu – I did a fair bit of tomcatting around before I got hitched, but to have some chick shouting out “SANDMAN” while you’re on the job… 
Again, my apologies.
[quote=“sandman”]God, I’m sorry about that Mwalimu – I did a fair bit of tomcatting around before I got hitched, but to have some chick shouting out “SANDMAN” while you’re on the job… 
Again, my apologies.[/quote]
Too much Flesh - Available at "Blockbusters’ in Taipei. You will never see a more emotionally honest movie about sex. Somehow manages to be heavy and lighthearted at the same time. Fantastic stuff. If it doesn’t move you, you better check your pulse, you might be dead.
The thing is, if you ladies are anything like 90% of women, if you had a big wang you’d being screaming in agony. I had a friend back home who had an oversize cock. Sure, when the girls found out how big it was, they wanted to have sex with him, but after they actually had sex…he was always complaining about how half of his girlfriends complained about how much it hurt. Sex with him was physically painful for most women. Be careful what you wish for.
Satellite TV, regarding that top ten list, how on Earth would a female who woke up with a dick go about getting a blow job? I could certainly imagine a guy waking up with breasts and a vagina spending every waking minute feeling themselves up. But I can’t imagine a woman (except perhaps in Bangkok) being able to find someone who’d be willing to give them a blowjob.