Frustration with a Taiwanese Woman

Mission unsuccessful?

…no? It’s just wrong.

Okay dude, whatever. I already clarified about half a dozen posts up. Do you have any actual advice for OP’s situation?

Haha of course I know what you mean. This happened like 1 year before I met her and it wouldn’t be a big deal what she did before meeting me if it was not by the fact that man was still writing her once in a while even if the topic of the conversation was to invest in TSMC. Maybe she genuinely thought that they agreed to be as friends so nothing will happen again, but I know that men will try sooner or later even in the friendzone, especially if this guy saw her naked.

Just own up to it man. Coulda just said sorry, I meant 80% of the population will contract it at some point. Woulda just been like oh yea no worries.

Not even trying to be pedantic, was genuinely confused for a while.

I did!

I mean, without the meaningless apology attached. Are we done with this now?

Oh I’m sorry, I didn’t even see that one. Must’ve missed it when I was replying.

It’s fine, just forget it.

I have a Taiwanese friend who had experience with his countrywomen and Southeast Asians. He said that he was surprised with one Filipina woman he encountered because she easily got wet and for a long time, not unlike other women he had experience with.

I’d also experience the same with older Taiwanese folks. It’s funny because they even look so eager to talk. :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes: After a while, I’ve taken Mandarin lessons so I can understand them a bit now.

I hate saying this.

But this is what I think could be happening. She had fun in her 20s. She found you, a stable man who she wants to settle down with. But you aren’t the type that sexually excited her. Probably doesn’t find you repulsive or anything like that, but I don’t think she’s that sexually attracted to you physically.

What I read is a woman who found someone who probably has a lot of attributes she likes for a long term relationship but isn’t that physically attracted to

This is just my opinion based on what I read

I would say from my experience in Taiwan, its not normal but some people (women) are like this. I had exGF many years ago have had some (being wet) problems, then used KY much better for that, and yes she like hugs, touching more than intercourse. Others not like that, sometimes much more they are excited than old me now. If sex is important you might move on too.

Under who is the lease???

Who wants to ride a broken bike? Not i.

Cut and run

If youre white, and in decent shape, ure like a prestige BF. And a chick magnet

++++++++++

But do you understand what she is saying? :laughing:

Have you tried other entry points?

It aint you. Sounds like she’s perpetually chasing the first act in a sappy romance movie. You’re between the 2nd and 3rd and that doesn’t get her going.

Maybe I am not normal, I do not 69 or like ways.

I read more and more.

I think what I said above is probably right. And I said it in a polite way.

I can only read what you wrote. But are there reasons you want to stay with her? It sounds to me she is clearly into sex, just not really with you. She had fun, now she feels pressure to settle down. She found a stable guy who doesn’t repulse her. But her sexual life is now compared to those men who did excite her but offered her nothing else.

It’s not even you bro. You both could improve your sex life, but for her, she is comparing off other experiences and not building new ones with you.

You are still young for a man, likely have a stable career that is starting to become more financially freeing. You have a lot of options right now, especially if you stay in shape and groom yourself.

She on the other hand is probably feeling more pressure with age to settle down.

You don’t have kids, you aren’t married. I would need a major reason to stay with someone and I’m not seeing it from what you wrote.

Maybe, or like she says, she’s always not been really into sex. Doesn’t really matter for @Aves , he’s still in the same spot.

The rub is, she was honest about this from the start. What did you expect @Aves , that this would change? Not likely to happen.

That leaves you with two primary options: suck it up or move on (I vote for the first, because you came into this out of a rebound with limited experience. Go see what’s what. Ignore advice that uses a piece of shit like Tate as some sort of role model.).

The fatigue, the vaginal dryness, and a few other things make me wonder if an autoimmune disease might not be a factor. See, for example, Sjögren’s disease. I would encourage the o/p to have her look into testing for an autoimmune condition. And that’s probably going to take more than just mentioning it once.

Of course, even if that is a factor, the relationship has some pretty serious issues, and those aren’t going to get resolved unless she’s willing to do some work on that too.

Good luck.

I think that’s the wrong question. A more appropriate question is, is it what you want. It sounds like you are basically sexually incompatible and that is a problem for you.