[quote=“Erhu”][quote=“Jaboney”]I’ve got a high IQ and education up the wazoo, and I am so not sexy.
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Are you fishing for a compliment here Jaboney? I’ll take the bait. You is sexy. Especially when you wear the Indiana Jones hat.[/quote]So not fishing.
But NOW I’ve got the music playing in my head.
Da-dah-DAAAaaa, da-dah-daaaa…
visions of Jaboney swinging through the air, holding a whip
[quote=“SuchAFob”]I a) don’t buy into the outdated idea of “pants” in a relationship and b) believe my relationship to be equal. But let’s say I’m wrong. Let’s say I carry around a riding crop and keep my man in “his place”. Let’s say I am the dominant one in the relationship.
What would be the problem with this? [/quote]
He may be perceived as a pussy?
Guys have a tougher job wrt this than you realise. When they submit to their women’s every need they’re not seen as sensitive and caring. They’re seen as pussies. When they don’t, they’re seen a chauvinistic beer swilling grunts.
It’s not easy to maintain a balance.
Maybe he likes you… 
Aren’t you still married? 
Personality = the end result of what you do with what you have.
Woman/Man’s thought on your personality => sexiness/attractiveness
[quote=“Yellow Cartman”]Personality = the end result of what you do with what you have.[/quote]Great definition. 