Genetic imprint and social shaping?
Females may have a small code in their genetic imprint to breed their likeness. Males not. The average male looking at a hot girl (granted each male still has his preferences largely based upon social shaping) thinks about how great sex would be with that girl. The average female may subconciously also be thinking whether the male could be good father material. And may again, subconciously prefer fathering a child more like herself.
More white women have children with white men then not. More asian women with asian then not, more black with black then not and so on.
Cross racial pairing is still the exception rather then the rule. Things are changing though.
Then there is social shaping. We all “learn” what is cool, what is hot, what is in. Etc.
We learn thin is in, fat is out. Model like is good. Mis-proportioned bad. Big tits in (except Asian girls get a pass on this one) and small tits out. Etc.
Society “teaches” us to desire largely the same things, to look up to a certain standard.
And that extends to the current favored race as well. Hollywood has made white men and women (and black men and women) desirable, less so the asian man and woman Exceptions apply.
And white men and women have certain advantages. They have blond, brown and black hair possibles. Blue or green or brown eye possibles. Asian have one default setting - black. Black people also have one default setting - brown. Less variables.
The asian woman has one great thing going for her. Her bod is currently considered “in”. Slim, usually petite and “properly shaped (tits get a pass here)”. The asian dude , sadly, largely loses out on most of the masculine cues. Chest hair? Nope. Muscular? Not usually. Big eyes? Nope. Bushy eyebrows? Nope. Mustache ? Nope. A lot of Asian guys look slightly feminine and that is currently a social turnoff for a lot of women other then Asian women.
Social/genetic preferences currently in AMERICAN Society by and large:
For white women: 1st white / 2nd black / 3rd latino / 4th Philippino ,other islander / last Chinese and other east asian (yes outranked by all including people from Tonga and India).
For white men : ALL GOOD, BABY. Just want em HOT AND S.E.X.Y.
For Asian women : 1st white / 2nd asian / 3rd mexican or black or whatever
For Asian men : 1st white / 2nd asian / 3rd everything else
For black men : 1st white / 2nd asian / 3rd latina, islander, etc / last choice black
For black women : 1st black / 2nd white / 3rd latino, etc / last choice chinese and other east asian.
So asian women are lucky in America. They can be considered by all. And all want to at least date a few, if not marry one. They are akin to O positive blood. Anyone can use.
For asian men? Although many desire a white chick, most will eventually end up with asian girls. But things are changing here. Lot more white girls are going out with asian men , more latina with asian , etc. But being an asian male in America is largely like having AB negative blood. Rejected by most.