Dating is just a numbers game in the end. The reality is people are attracted to and could potentially get along with lots of people in the world, so it’s a bit silly to think that the love of your life could never have eyes for another.
Personally, I wouldn’t marry somebody I met on Tinder.
I’ve never used Tinder (met my wife before it was really popular), and I understand the perception of it, but how is it different than meeting a woman at most other places? Yes, many men and women on Tinder are trying to meet and hook up with lots of people. The same can’t be said for people who go to parties or bars? Of course some of the people on Tinder would not be husband or wife material, but that’s true for people in any social setting.
Pretend you’re married and hang out with gay friends who dress better than you and you’ll have girls trying to ask you out. I wish that I had known this decades ago.
let me give you a step by step plan how to impress a taiwanese girl as a foreigner.
learn some basic chinese. not too much though, enough that you can repeat a basic phrase. they will pretend to be massively impressed.
eat stinky tofu and like it. again, this will impress and earn you a lot of points. you will be viewed at as almost an honorary taiwanese if you can pull this off.
pay for the meal or drinks or whatever (basically everything) on your date. being stingy is a massive turn off here. most girls would like it if the man paid for everything, every day, as if you were her actual father and she was a helpless child. of course you can pull the old switcheroo later but on the first few dates you should try to make a good impression.
kiss ass and say you love taiwan. even the shitty things like scooters. i’ve made mistakes before and told girls i think the scooters suck and they got pissed off about it.
don’t be too direct. this will result in you being thought of as a dirty pervert foreigner. i would even not bother telling a girl you like her until you are going steady.