From a discussion in the Where Can I Find forum: Where can I find someone to bid at ruten.com.tw for me?
[quote=“Stray Dog”]There is, in fact, a scam called bid-assisting, which involves the victim receiving goods on someone else’s behalf because the bid isn’t open to international bidding.
taihu57, if you’re genuine, my advice is to do a little more than call people jerks.
Goose Egg, you should be protecting Forumosans from this kind of scam. The guy may be genuine, but you really shouldn’t be encouraging people to pay for, receive, and ship goods on a stranger’s behalf.[/quote]
[quote=“I”]I can relate to how taihu57 feels. I needed something on short notice in Shanghai last week, and I posted for help on ShanghaiExpat.com. A couple of wiseass remarks later, I got nothing. The hell I want to go back there for advice. Fortunately, I was able to find what I needed on Alibaba.com (an amazing response, btw), thought it would have been nicer to have gotten some advice from the long-term users of that forum. In the end, I ended up taking a chance with a vendor in Beijing I’ve never done business with
Sandy, is it too much to expect you to have posted more like what you did above, than with the wiseacre remark. This is supposed to be the WCIF forum. It would have been more appropriate for you to quote taihu57’s post and post your joke in the Temp forum. I’m all for Forumosa being a source of entertainment, but it’s also meant to be a place where people can go to for help[/quote]
I’m looking over what I posted and I do not see where I advocate “encouraging people to pay for, receive, and ship goods on a stranger’s behalf”.
First, I identify with what it’s like to be a new poster who comes to a discussion forum in desperate need. Then I point out that Sandy could have issued his warning (which I noted is helpful to ALL) instead of an obtuse crack designed primarily to alienate the OP.
I actually appreciated hearing about an ecommerce site like ruten.com.tw, although I cannot seem to view it from Shanghai. I’ll check it out when I get the chance. I also appreciate hearing about bid-assisting, and will be on-guard for it should I ever use an auction site (especially in China)
My post is about protecting new Forumosans from bullying. I do not use the site as a reader very much, but as an admin, I see the complaints of Forumosa becoming an “in-club” and of how difficult it can be for a new Forumosan. And I see what this can be like on forums like ShanghaiExpat and TheBeijinger. I’m thankful Forumosa has not reached the depths those sites have reached at times when their long-time users pounce on newbies.
How do you propose I should have “protected Forumosans”? Surely not by mocking the new guy even more? Had Sandy posted his second post first, that would have served enough as a clear and fair warning
I think this could have been handled better. That Sandman happens to also be a moderator here is embarrasing, because we hold mods to a higher standard. Stray Dog, I don’t want you to think this means I’m opening the gates to scammers and grifters; it means that at one post on the forum, we give the new person slack. And if that person does turn out to be a shyster, that’s slack enough for them to hang themselves with.