Is dating hard for East Asian guys in the West?

OysterOmelet · May 1, 2021, 5:08am

No, he married a Taiwanese woman who was a nurse. But he waited until he was over 40.

PeiHua-Connie · May 2, 2021, 6:00am

OysterOmelet:

PeiHua-Connie:

OysterOmelet:

Forget Taiwanese women. They’re not having kids anyway. Get someone from Vietnam.

What kind of comment is that. We Taiwanese girls want better man and not a guy (or girl) that has thinking not from the dark ages. It sounds like sounds like stereotype of guy that can not get Taiwanese girl and like need find a poor lady. Good that even in Vietnam more ladies there will not accept men like that.

What do you want Taiwan to do? Only 10% of Taiwanese women and 30% of Taiwanese men think marriage is important.

The economy will collapse if we don’t have more workers.

If Taiwanese women are too demanding or unwilling to have children, forget about them. You don’t need them. Just find someone from Vietnam.

My uncle had trouble finding a wife because 阿嫲was old and needed taking care of. He eventually found someone, fortunately.

And get those models from Eastern Europe too, if possible. Make Taiwanese children better looking.

Taiwanese want kids with a good modern man, not the way you mention which why you look for poor women. Your not in Taiwan and maybe in your country women are like that but not here in Taiwan. We want take care of our parents too not only husbands. I am single but my sister and husband come for dinner a few days a week to my parents and kids too which is quite normal now. Very few want take care husbands side, as husband can do it too. Do you care for your wife’s parents or would you if needed or other family?

mad_masala · May 3, 2021, 2:32am

mad_masala · May 3, 2021, 2:34am

Because we are in an hedonist era promoted by marketing and producing childish forever teenager children.

If they are Russian models yeah, much better than average.

Poundsand · May 3, 2021, 2:58am

Yeah, because they’ll take care of grandma. ha!

tando · May 3, 2021, 3:01am

Taiwanese women prefer good looking western guys.
Taiwanese men prefer good looking east European models.
Average looking of Taiwanese will be improved, if everyone can get a good looking partner.

OysterOmelet · May 3, 2021, 3:30am

Making babies is more urgent than taking care of grandma.

Poundsand · May 3, 2021, 4:09am

Didn’t sound like your uncle agreed.

Taiwan_Luthiers · May 3, 2021, 4:14am

Why is making babies so important? It’s not like we have a shortage of babies.

I rather have cats than babies.

PeiHua-Connie · May 3, 2021, 4:48am

Why as others have said as it’s a personal issue and why force this on women and not an issue for men. Do you have many kids/grandkids too or none at all?

OysterOmelet · May 3, 2021, 5:10am

PeiHua-Connie:

OysterOmelet:

PeiHua-Connie:

OysterOmelet:

Forget Taiwanese women. They’re not having kids anyway. Get someone from Vietnam.

What kind of comment is that. We Taiwanese girls want better man and not a guy (or girl) that has thinking not from the dark ages. It sounds like sounds like stereotype of guy that can not get Taiwanese girl and like need find a poor lady. Good that even in Vietnam more ladies there will not accept men like that.

What do you want Taiwan to do? Only 10% of Taiwanese women and 30% of Taiwanese men think marriage is important.

The economy will collapse if we don’t have more workers.

If Taiwanese women are too demanding or unwilling to have children, forget about them. You don’t need them. Just find someone from Vietnam.

My uncle had trouble finding a wife because 阿嫲was old and needed taking care of. He eventually found someone, fortunately.

And get those models from Eastern Europe too, if possible. Make Taiwanese children better looking.

Taiwanese want kids with a good modern man, not the way you mention which why you look for poor women. Your not in Taiwan and maybe in your country women are like that but not here in Taiwan. We want take care of our parents too not only husbands. I am single but my sister and husband come for dinner a few days a week to my parents and kids too which is quite normal now. Very few want take care husbands side, as husband can do it too. Do you care for your wife’s parents or would you if needed or other family?

Take care of parents on both sides would be ideal.

Dr_Milker · May 3, 2021, 5:13am

FIFY

OysterOmelet · May 3, 2021, 5:31am

I’m not my uncle.

tando · May 3, 2021, 7:32am

Move to Taiwan, become a citizen, and have many babies with your spouse!

anon50641892 · May 3, 2021, 7:45am

Stereotype states yes, but mostly its a confidence thing. Asian dudes just need to step our games up and that’s all and not give a fuck. Don’t need to be a “bad boy” but just need to let shit slide…to slide into WAP…if u know what i mean. LOL!

Don’t ban me plz…

Poundsand · May 3, 2021, 2:38pm

Well, you were talking about your uncle.

And it seemed pretty clear that we weren’t talking about you, since you didn’t vaguely reference yourself, aren’t in Taiwan, and you’ve stated you have essentially no interest in moving to Taiwan, soooo, yeah, ok.

PeiHua-Connie · May 4, 2021, 1:32am

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OysterOmelet:

PeiHua-Connie:

OysterOmelet:

Forget Taiwanese women. They’re not having kids anyway. Get someone from Vietnam.

What kind of comment is that. We Taiwanese girls want better man and not a guy (or girl) that has thinking not from the dark ages. It sounds like sounds like stereotype of guy that can not get Taiwanese girl and like need find a poor lady. Good that even in Vietnam more ladies there will not accept men like that.

What do you want Taiwan to do? Only 10% of Taiwanese women and 30% of Taiwanese men think marriage is important.

The economy will collapse if we don’t have more workers.

If Taiwanese women are too demanding or unwilling to have children, forget about them. You don’t need them. Just find someone from Vietnam.

My uncle had trouble finding a wife because 阿嫲was old and needed taking care of. He eventually found someone, fortunately.

And get those models from Eastern Europe too, if possible. Make Taiwanese children better looking.

So do you take care of your wife parents and who takes care of your kids?

PeiHua-Connie · May 4, 2021, 10:30am

Yes, and have more kids rather than telling others.