Is dating hard for East Asian guys in the West?

Just don’t be so sure the Western men are the ones coming out on top, so to speak, in that equation. The women involved may be poor, but they’re not necessarily vulnerable or naive. Milking incels for all they’re worth is a cottage industry in some parts.

Can we all just agree that a society where most women are independent and capable, have no trouble providing for themselves and are disgusted by Roosh is the kind we want our daughters to grow up in and leave it at that?

So you don’t approve of monogamous Christian marriages? Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

I like marriage to just be a commitment to one another made by the two people involved, and leave society, families, and religion out of it.

Amen to that.

Protip: Worrying is a turn-off. If she likes “foreign culture” being Japanese should be more than enough. After all, Taiwanese love Japanese culture, so use that to your advantage.

Almost all of the the ones who are true hustlers become hustlers because they’re in an environment in which they have few if any better alternatives.

I can personally empathize with that a lot more easily than I can empathize with an incel from a wealthy country who doesn’t want to deal with the fact that women he’s attracted to aren’t throwing themselves at his feet. But that’s just me.

I can empathize with both. Actually, I can empathize with just about anybody. Life is hard. :grin:

By the way, just to cover everything. There are also not an insignificant amount of Asian girls in the US who would only date Asian guys, if not only guys from a specific cultural background.

Having said that, like @Andrew0409 mentioned above, since over 45% of Asian American women marry outside of the ethnicity, and there are less Asian Americans to begin with, that still leaves Asian American men with fewer options.

I grew up in a US town that had a ton of East Asian guys and there is a lot of dating racism against EA males, mostly from EA females. It’s sad. Hollywood just reinforces the stereotype of EA males as nerds and FOBS like in the movie The Hangover.

Overall the US is really racist in dating but ppl justify it by saying it’s just people’s “preferences” which I never understood because that’s sort of the definition of racism. The “preferences” as just a by product of a racist society. But whatever, for what it’s worth, most EA guys I’ve known who moved to Asia did really well with dating locals, better than white guys.

Better than white guys? Because you don’t know me… I’m charming and unbeatable. Wait… I’m not white! Anaconda babeeee.

Talking about programming languages probably isn’t going to make you a chick magnet.

It does! :coffee:

what a sleazy arsehole that guy is. FFS, be nice and don’t perpetuate his treatment of women as life support devices for a vagina.

The US has a much higher number of interracial couples than most other countries.

There is a lot of nuance to a reasonable discussion about this topic. Race isn’t the only issue. Culture and language are huge factors that get lumped in with “race”.

By your definition, Asians are among the most racist people in the world. Japanese women might be intrigued by white guys with blue eyes, but most of them won’t actually date a Western foreigner because of language, culture and stereotypes.

Even in Taiwan, there are plenty of women who won’t seriously consider dating foreigners. I’ve asked my girlfriend about introducing some of her Taiwanese friends to my Western friends and all but one refused, even though my friends are all well-educated and successful. The reasons: lack of confidence in their English ability, concern over shared values and family acceptance, etc. Same dynamic is not uncommon in China, South Korea, etc., especially once you’re out of the major cities.

Finally, let’s not even talk about Indians. That’s on a whole other level.

It’s definitely not a universal thing. I’ve had some very satisfying relationships with Indian, Japanese, Korean and Thai women.

Also some f’n disasters.

like my Taiwanese ex wife

I’m sorry, I can’t read Chinese. What does that meme say?

Musculature girls like v.s. Musculature girls don’t like

There are a lot of memes like this in Taiwan. Usually when girls says there’s something they do not like about a guy, be it fashion, humor, body type, it usually just means they think the person is urgo.

Oh, one of these cliches girls here especially like to use is “the guy doesn’t give me a clean feeling” (乾淨的感覺)

I mean, duh! There’s a whole mix of different races in the U.S.

What about Indians? You mean as in they’re pickier about interacial dating or that they’ve got it worse?

Esther Ku is cringe IMAO. She makes Asian women (and Asian men) look bad. I can’t watch her content. It’s too painful to watch. :-1: