Is it bad for a 21-year-old female to date a 35-year-old male?

Maybe we should measure mental age and biological age instead of the age written down in our ID.

19 Blessed Celebrity’s Marriages With A 20+ Year Age Gap

Ami tofu

I mean no example is as good as al Pacino. An 84 year old man with a 30 year old women and having a child at the age of 83.

Ami tofu. Is so right

Twn need more ppl

thats not good at all. he will never see her grow up

hard to measure

Age is just a number, says Aaron Kwok of 23-year age gap with Moka Fang

Peace on earth

Still more relevant though.

The rich and or famous having much younger wife isn’t news

You can’t compare celebrities with real people.
They live in the land of nod.
Anyway, whatever two consenting adults do as long as no-one is harmed is their business. If anyone has an issue, that is their problem.

Let’s be honest, the only people who have a problem with older men dating/marrying younger women is older women. As is often the case they cloak their self-interest under the guise of tut-tut moralizing.

Huang Xiaoming’s relationship with ex-girlfriend, Chinese influencer Ye Ke, has been quite the rollercoaster ride.

Last year, the 47-year-old Chinese actor, who’s the ex-husband of Angelababy, revealed that he was dating Ye Ke, 33, but they broke up just two months later.

After the split, Ye Ke was spotted at a gynecologist with a baby bump, leading to mass confusion about the couple’s relationship status

I find that the younger generations tend to have opinions about it as well.

I thpught he was dating the old woman.

I have huge respect for men who date older women. Especially those men who have power and money to attract any young girl.

I’m sorry, but as someone who has an older wife, I don’t get this. People date and marry whoever they fall in love with, whether that person is younger or older. Dudes who date/marry older women are not deserving of “huge respect” as if they somehow sacrificed something. I think people in this thread and in general are just too hung up on age. Yes, with huge age gaps there’s the potential for power dynamics, and with women over a certain age there’s fertility concerns too, but I feel like there’s also a lot of excuses made for ageism (whether that’s older guy/younger woman, older woman/younger guy). The hang up on dating ages reminds me a bit of the hang up with interracial dating, with people either complimenting or cursing you about it… instead we don’t need either and it should be a non-issue.

Basically, in a nutshell, I say you should not give a flock about who somebody else flocks

Dating older women?

This movie comes to mind

course that is just teen age fantasy
tommy was learned by a 29 year old when he was 19 too :slight_smile: that was mind opening

OP if you go older the gratitude factor becomes very significant, further shifting the power balance in your favour.

The problem is they think they’re smart when they use ChatGPT but ChatGPT is only as useful as the person behind it as of now.