[quote=“elektronisk”]miltownkid;
Is this the post you mean? Sorry, the formatting is a little screwed up. (Oh sh*t, now everyone will know I’m the “Hacker God of Intraweb”. Can I have that as my title next to my avatar?)
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
well, it may sound “dumb” to some,
but hey, we only get one chance at life.[/quote]
You know something I don’t?
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
if something/someone grabs your fancy, why not go for.[/quote]
I can think of just as many reasons not to as I can to.
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
yes, it could be beautiful.
life is too short.[/quote]
Says who?
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
who cares if he gets a lesson out of it.[/quote]
I certainly don’t, though I’d recommend it.
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
it seems like it will only be a lesson if it fails.
a lesson in what though?
not to try?
not to hope?
not to seek something real?
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My experience tells me success teaching nothing in comparison to failure. I don’t know why the first lessons that came to your mind were not trying, not hoping and not seeking something real. Seems like a socially programmed response. Lessons that came to my mind ranged from finding cheap tickets from Sweden-Taiwan, to understanding ones emotions more fully. Hopefully after a failed experience TheLostSwede won’t have to post on an Intraweb forum asking if how he feels is normal when he bumps into the next “the one.” He’ll know it is AND from his past experience he’ll know how to handle things better (where to buy tickets, finding a job, whatever.)
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
if it works, then it’s a lesson in what?
something you already knew?[/quote]
I see everything in life as being pretty much the same shit different pile. From break dancing to quantum physics. Same shit, different pile. I’ll use Brazilian Jujitsu to explain why success teaching almost nothing.
There are many moves in BJJ. After learning a new move, I first have to practice it with a partner. Then I have to practice while sparring/competing. I will fail time and time again while trying to use this new move, but there is something to learn wrapped up in each failure (if I pay close attention.) Upon successfully doing the move a few times I file it away. Doing that same move over and over again would pale in comparison to what I’d learn trying something new (and failing.) It sounds like TheLostSwede will be trying something new. Beautiful things are guaranteed to happen (whether he thinks what happens is beautiful is up to him though.)
[quote]JOHN MOSS wrote:
that’s not a lesson.
that’s living life.[/quote]
That’s not life, that’s learning a lesson… [/quote]
Why yes, yes it is. Now I can put one of these Doraemon magnets to use hanging it up