Good point. Hand on the inner thigh is a bad choice, dick pic out of the question (or am I wrong), but lightly touching the hand/arm/back/shoulder sends a clear signal without crossing a line
Yeah, in my experience spending the whole day together sometimes leads to breakfast, but i have a very different way of seeing and existing in the world than cake does
I cant recall ever being that forward with a Chinese or Taiwanese girl without testing the waters more modestly. Maybe Thailand? Hard to remember, but doesnt seem my style
You like em just to walk up and lay hands on the udders, eh?
Call me old fashioned, but how about after the first or second…or whatever date together, simply tell her “I enjoy being around you. I want to know you more than just friends. Can we take this to the next level together?”
Groping is so creepy and akward high school level.
Permission before touching seems to be common sense, no?
I don’t consider brushing of fingertips to be groping, it sends a signal and gives the other party a chance to back off or reciprocate without loss of face for either party
Some successes and some failures, but i dont think it is my various signalling techniques that are the problem. I’ll stand by my methods, as mentioned I’ve never had the OPs problem. I like to move incrementally, respectfully, mindfully, and context-appropriately
Sorry to disappoint you, but they would do most of the talking and when I would, it would be no heavy subjects, light and funny.
As the song goes, girls just wanna have fun.