A miltown story:
I got this friend that likes to paint his toe nails, wears only girls deoderant, is always really clean cut, trims his eye brows, uses fancy creams, etc. From this description, one might say he’s gay (and many people who don’t know him might think the same).
But after you see his girlfriend or (if like me) you know him well and know about all of the shagging he’s done in his time (and continues to) it’s very clear that he is not gay or anything close to that (not saying it’s bad or anything).
When we’ve talked about it, he says what he does he does for himself. It’s not for looking good for girls or anything like that. He does think it may have come from being raised with no father and a bunch of sisters, but who knows. Besides the aboved mentioned rituals he’s the most manlyest man I know (he’s a bouncer that beats the @#$& out of people when that time comes, he DJ’s, as mentioned before shags, etc).
Being gay just means you like to shag guys (if your a guy). I don’t know much about gays and the gay community, but I’m sure there must be some hardcore gays out there that make rambo look like bambi (if you know what I mean).
Hope this fits into the discussion somewhere.
P.S. Is gay the right word? I mean no offence.