Sometimes I feel the same way. In the states I had a lot of ABC friends, but when I came to Taiwan with a big group of students, some of the ABCs turned on me.
I remember I was on a bus coming back from seeing a movie with 3 of my ABC classmates. There was an extra spot next to me on the bus, but the ABC girl didn’t want to sit down next to me. She prefered to sit in between the two seats in the back of the bus (very uncomfortable and bumpy I would imagine). When the other ABCs told her to go sit with me, she said (very loudly), “I’m not sitting next to the whitey!” The whole bus chuckled (everyone seemed to understand her English). She tried to explain that she didn’t like being looked at weird when she was sitting next to a white person. I couldn’t understand her reasoning because if I said the same thing to her in America… Well, you know what…
I’m not saying all ABCs are like her, but there definitly are some that when they get to Taiwan, seem to distance themselves from non-Chinese people.
Just like there are some White folk that don’t like Chinese folk, there are some Chinese folk who don’t like White folk. It’s human I guess, but it doesn’t have to be that way…
Can’t we all just get along???